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Posted 25 May 2023 at 17:44

Hi, hubby is all set for surgery in 2 weeks time and we’re off to pre op appointment tomorrow. I have been ok but the enormity of the diagnosis and treatment has hit me like an express train today. Has anyone any advice that might help?

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Posted 25 May 2023 at 19:59

In addition to the many partners in this forum, there are some partner-only support groups. The Oxford and the Isle of Wight prostate cancer support groups run partner-only meetings. There's also the National Prostate Cancer Partners Support Group which meets every 3 months on Zoom.

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Posted 10 Jul 2023 at 16:42

Hi Denise....just reading this post now in July. By now, your hubby should be well on his way to recovery, post-catheter, being able to accomplish daily routine, etc....

Patience is key, and by you posting here tells me you are supportive, and caring. I hope all is well by now, and please keep reaching out for help, support, and advice.

Dan

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Posted 12 Jul 2023 at 11:50

Hi Denise, I have only just seen this. My hubby had RARP on 10th June so they (and us!) are going through this at similar times.

Hopefully your hubby is doing well.

I do understand how you feel, from a partners point of view, how overwhelming all of this. Pca has only been on our radar for 3 months and our lives and dreams have changed beyond belief in these last 12 weeks.

I sometimes feel ever so sad, but have to remain upbeat for all those around me - very hard to do 24/7.

Please message me if you want to talk, but as you know everyone on here is so caring and supportive please reach out x

Take care,

Tulippy 🌹 x

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