Hi LindaR,
Re your query, I can give you the experiences, to date, of a not that fit 75 year old who has no other known health complications. I was diagnosed with prostate cancer last October with a PSA of 476. On ADT from mid-November after cancer confirmed as metastatic to the bone. PSA down to 19.5 by mid-December. It was a very scary time - especially for my wife.
Started to do as much research as possible on treatment options and their pros and cons, and discovered that Darolutamide triple therapy had been conditionally fast-tracked by the NHS prior to obtaining official approval by NICE (which just happened on 21st June). Recommend you see the NICE website and the report of the ARASENS trial (https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJMoa2119115) which has informed oncologists in the States, UK, and Europe.
On my own judgement, I asked to go on the Darolutamide triple therapy (my oncologist didn't then know about the fast-track approval or much about ARASENS). Logic was that all treatments had side effects but, thinking long term, Darolutamide appeared to be the most tolerable anti-androgen (for example, no 'brain fogs'). Moreover, I thought that I would be more able to tolerate Docetaxel now than in, say, three to five years time. Subject to a warning about the possible side-effects of chemo, particularly infections leading to sepsis, I started Darolutamide mid-February and chemo mid-March (PSA then 0.7).
My experience of chemo - Ok for a day or so after a session, then a bit tired with occasional fatigue, which has increased over the sessions. Some hair loss, including a little body hair, after Session 1, but none since. Some loss of taste after each session and one or two mouth abscesses. Biggest issue for me was (is) swollen hands and fingers with tingling and slight loss of feeling at finger tips for about a week after chemo during the nadir days (5-8) - although that is lessening. Agree with 'jellies' that the quality of life during chemo is not too bad with, roughly, a week of tiredness, a week of caution avoiding risk of infections (under wife's careful eye), and then a week of some normality, although need to go for the next chemo blood test (last PSA 0.2) and a consultation (usually by phone) with the oncologist 'or a member of the team', before the next chemo session. The time on chemo passes quickly (my last one is next week) and, although one cannot predict the long term results, I feel I made the right choice - for me. That is the point - everyone's situation is different and everyone's experiences of the different treatment options and results are different. Whatever your husband decides he and you have my best wishes for a long and happy future.
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