Hello everyone,
Two months ago, aged 60, and following 7 weeks of 'sciatica' which ultimately affected both legs and made me housebound, I was rushed to hospital after a PSA of 75 suggested prostate cancer may be in the spine and was causing cauda equina syndrome.
I'm T4 N1 M1b, with 7 meta in the bones, 3 in the spine (two emergency-operated on with bone cement), one in a rib, and 3 in the pelvis/hips though they are said to be small. There's at least 2 masses, one 3cms under a branched artery, the aortic bifurcation, and 2cms near the iliac blood vessels, and there's cancer around a kidney's ureter which is affecting its function but does not yet require a stent. Cysts on my liver have been declared benign without biopsy on the basis of MRI reviews. Some of the liquid bone cement, which was squirted into the vertebrae during surgery, entered the venous system before setting and ended up in my lungs, now showing as dark opacities, and I've a slight cough as a result. Bought an oximeter to self-monitor.
I'm on Degarelix, and Apalutamide. Doublet therapy only (I'd asked for chemo) as my cancer hasn't migrated north of the midriff and was told chemo's only for triplet therapy for wider spread. I've responded well to Degarelix, testosterone down 99.4%, but PSA falling more slowly than some experiences on here, to 49 and still at 17, but these later tests followed me having flexible cystoscopy and urodynamics ahead of a planned TURP.
The Apalutamide, which I was nervous of taking due to its list of quite serious side-effects of high incidence, has so far given me some brief hot flushes within an hour or so of taking it but has also zonked me for half the day, making me sleep for up to 14 hours all told. Waking up became scary until I got used to it, I was so tired I thought 'this is it, I'm dying', but soon improved when vertical. My BP was already highish so needed to go onto BP pills first.
The spinal surgery went well, and for the first week I could walk and balance unaided, but a pain developed in my hip and I've since walked with a stick, fearing any fall. This pain comes on especially when laid down, and at other times it limits my walking range, and I drag my right foot when tiring, and I'm half the speed I was. Hard to believe that 4 months ago I walked and cycled everywhere, and said of myself I could "walk the back legs off a donkey". They'd cut away a bone cage off the L5 vertebrae during surgery and I suspect upward mattress pressure is now free to press on the cauda equina nerves when prone, or there is some permanent damage. The oncologist said the cancer in the hip cannot be the cause as it's tiny.
That's the background, sorry if it's too detailed. Before a bone scan was done I asked the oncologist how long I had and she suggested she'd known men in this situation last 3 or 4 years, some less, and some exceptional ones a decade or so, which didn't really tell me much. I'll be asking her if she can refine her prognosis now she has more info when I next see her (2 month gap) but wondering if anyone here can advise before then.
I live alone and am still in this stage where I don't know if I should be trying to urgently clear my house, which is jammed with a lifetime's collections, get everything sorted while I can, which I've already started but is physically taxing due to mobility issues and exhaustion, or there's plenty more time for that than I imagine.
Thanks for reading.
Steve
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