Thanks for the reply Lyn.
I didn't think to ask those questions, they will certainly clear a few things up for me.
You are right it's more myself that's questioning to Why? is surgery not an option.
At my first appointment with the Oncologist I just listened and really didn't hear much, apart from the words, incontinence, and tablets for life. I just thought. Oh well that's alright then?
It wasn't until a few days later and reading up on things I started to think differently and still do.
My Specialist Nurse has been really great and supportive, like wise in learning so much more in PC UK.
I have a telephone appointment 9th August with Oncologist, once they see my latest PSA test results, which will determine when I and I start HT. At this point I have a list of questions to ask, which I hope will clear my mind a little more.
I will update after that.
Thanks once again
Martin