They used to say late-onset side effects were those which started 6 months after treatment and persisted. About 5 years ago, that was changed to 3 months.
It probably took my bowel about 9 months to get back to almost normal, except for broccoli which took a year before I could eat again. There was still slightly more mucus for well past a year, and that actually made having a #2 easier than even before treatment (although the "mucus farts" as my oncologist called them had mostly finished by 6 months).
A common issue during and for a while after RT is Tenesmus - a sense you need to do a #2 when actually there's nothing there. Another issue is having no sense if what's waiting to come out is a solid, liquid, or gas, which makes farting very unsafe, caused by damage to nerves in the rectum. These effects usually recover but can take longer than you've had since RT.
Another likely cause is radiation proctitis - a radiation burn to the rectum.
I think it's rather arrogant for your oncologist to dismiss this as prostate cancer related, or more specifically prostate cancer treatment related. That seems most likely in the circumstances, but you can't rule out some other problem and should ask to be checked. You could ask the CNSs to refer you to colorectal to check it's not something more sinister.