Very similar situation to my husband. He got upgraded to 4+5 from 4+3 although downgraded T score from T3a to T2. He also had one node with cancer out of the 14 that were removed.
We got 14 months before any detectable PSA, we enjoyed the time and I think Rob thought he may get away without further treatment so had quite a positive mindset throughout. I did always try to prepare him a little for what might happen and of course it did.
He’s started his HT now and has his planning scan for SRT in October. I think it’s good to still believe that they got it all and if his psa does rise then you know he will have options available.
As for PSA testing, because Rob had his op in London…I pretty much took control of it when we got back to Manchester. I booked him a blood test every 3 months until the first rise, then I changed to 6 weekly so I could monitor it more closely. We have a bloods line to ring and then go to GP surgery to pick up a blood bag.
Best of luck with the PSA test 👍