Hi Pete
Hearing the experiences here I think I'm one of the lucky ones when it comes to incontinence.
Had my TWOC 12th August and took a supply of Molicare MEN pads as advised. No probs on the short journey home.
Got home to find that when I had the urge to pee and when I pulled down my undies and pad I was already peeing, not a dribble actually peeing. This went on for a few hours and I overreacted and ordered a shed load of new pads.
I was not looking forward to going to bed on the first night thinking maybe I should have bought an incontinence blanket but to my surprise I got through the night with a bone dry pad. Only problem was waking up every hour or so for a pee. The surgeon said this will improve as the bladder gets used to the fact the prostate is no longer there.
Over the next couple of days the incontinence subsided to a few dribbles especially when getting up from a chair (a quick squeeze of the pelvis floor muscle helps this) or if something made me laugh or I sneezed or coughed.
I'm now using maybe 2 pads a day with no real problems. They are not really wet just changing for hygiene reasons.
Next test is navigating the golf course!!
Hope this helps
Cheers
Len