I have been taking Tamsulosin for 3-4 years, worked well for me with no apparent side effects.
Last year I had a severe gastric bug, couldn't keep anything in or down. This resulted in dehydration (I did try to drink!) and a UTI with high Colony Forming Units of E.Coli. Doc put me on antibiotics, told me to watch for flank pain as the infection was severe.
Flank pain arrived, saw Doc again - 'Go to A&E NOW' (she suspected early sepsis).
A&E put my on IV Gentamicin antibiotic for three consecutive days. Because I wasn't peeing very well, they sent me home with a Catheter, which irritated my prostate and resulted in extreme urgency. I never actually pee'd myself but got very close!
Wen to see a urologist privately as we were due to be away from home for a few weeks. He suggested Finasteride in addition to Tamsulosin.
I took it for 6 weeks, but stopped when I started to grow a breast (just one!) - a known side effect of Finasteride.
I'm now 7 months post gastric issue that started all this, I get up once in the night (sometimes not even that), pee reasonably well, no urgency that can't be easily controlled.
I have 6 monthly PSA reviews due to a slight suspicion of area on an MRI scan. First read was PIRADS 2, second read was PIRADS 4! I had a biopsy but nothing found.
Had my PSA bloods done a couple of weeks ago, my 'virtual' appointmnet is this Friday! Fingers crossed!
So, my experience of Finasteride is bad, yours may be different (and I still have MOOB!)