Hi everyone, so I count myself lucky that, after my RP operation, that I'm able to get erections 6 months post surgery (nerve sparing just on one side), great with sildenafil and getting there slowly without pills, but on orgasm I am ejaculating a lot of urine. If I pee before sex I ejaculate c10-20ml and if I don't pee it can up to 70-80ml. Clearly this is affecting my sex life as there no way I want to climax when I have penetrative sex.
Is this common, I was expecting to have dry orgasms. Anyone have this, does this improve. Mine doesn't seem to be getting any better. In terms of incontinence I'm nearly there just have the odd dribble or minor accident (not stress incontinence).
The urology medical staff don't seem to be taking any notice of my issue of providing guidance, indeed the consultant just said it's only urine and won't do your wife any harm......
Be interested in other people's experiences/thoughts.
Thanks