Hi Bubo
Im in a similar position to you, other than I was diagnosed last August. Originally they told me I was 3+4=7 and needed treatment. However they then decided it was 3+3=6 and I could choose AS if I wanted. I had the same doubts and misgivings which you are no doubt having, but decided it was worth putting off treatment and its side effects for a while if I could safely do so.
I had my first 3 month review in December and was told my PSA level had risen a bit (it is now 6.8) but I was ok to carry on.
If I’d opted to have surgery back then I’d probably be cancer free by now, but also suffering all of the well documented side effects of RARP. On balance I’m happy with my decision, and I know I can change my mind at any point if I want to, so it’s not closed off any options for treatment.
It can be a bit nerve wracking at times, but my advice is give it a go, even if you just give it a few months. By then you’ll have had chance to learn a lot more about PCa and decide what you want to do longer term.
Best of luck mate, and keep us posted.
Ian.