Similarly for me, nothing showed in lymph nodes or seminal vesicles. Before putting me forward for radiotherapy though, I had a nuclear bone scan where they injected dye and I had to wait for several hours, then went into the scanner. This would have showed any metastatic cancer, and didn't. Therefore they went ahead with the radiotherapy plus hormone therapy ongoing for 9 more months. After the radiotherapy ends next week, not sure what I will get after that.
The problem with any cancer is that it can return, even though it was supposedly got rid of initially. This is why they will never say you are cured, only in remission. It may be that whatever is inside that particular body, which predisposed them to get the cancer in the first place, is still there because you are as you are. Hence why it can return after many years.
I know several people who have had breast cancer, not a genetic one, who had surgery, radiotherapy, hormone treatment for 10 years and were supposedly 'cured'. But it came back. I do think though, that anyone who is not happy, or concerned about the way they are being managed, should ask for a second opinion, it is something you are entitled to. I am very much of the opinion, if something doesn't feel right, it's your body listen to it.