Hi Jimmy.
I had non nerve sparing RARP a year ago. I definitely lost some length. I make Michelangelo's, David, look well hung.
I didn't want to use a pump. I'm very ham-fisted and impatient. I knew I'd either injure myself or end up lobbing the pump out of the window.
Down below, I'm as dead as a Dodo. The only time I get a slight swelling is whilst pushing to have poo, which is hardly an ideal time to start foreplay.
There's also a tiny bit of action whilst soaping down below when showering.
Sex has always been important to me and the thought of never managing to have an erection was devastating.
Fortunately, 6 months after surgery, I had an ED clinic meeting. I was prescribed Invicorp injections and they work well. Weirdly, although I'm smaller when flaccid, post op, I think I'm about the same size erect. The wife reckons the girth's actually improved. I joke with her that's very complimentary, but say, it's more likely that she's shrunk due to months of inactivity.
Here's a link to an Invicorp related thread.
https://community.prostatecanceruk.org/posts/t29845-Hooray-for-Invicorp
Being smaller flaccid, does create problems, especially when it's cold. In winter, it can be a nightmare, whilst you're out, trying to pull it through your fly hole, to have pee. By the time you've managed to find and grab it, then tug it out off your jeans, you've nearly run out of todger.
Edited by member 11 Feb 2024 at 13:23
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