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Posted 12 Oct 2024 at 17:35

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Super league grand final on soon. Hull KR v Wigan. I'd love Hull KR to win but I doubt it. I've got a tray of spicy chicken wings to chuck in the oven and plenty of beers. Life's good.

Good stuff 😬. I’m on a jolly down in Cornwall- god it’s a long drive! Glorious sunshine though, fabulous. Just got back from a nice coastal walk, with fine views to St Micks Mount, dogs having a right old time.

Curry for tea washed down with some Cornish cider. Good luck with the rugby Adrian, hope your team does the business.

Enjoy

Spongebob

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Posted 13 Oct 2024 at 08:27

I was wondering if Adrian would be allowed out of the doghouse for the game. If not.. it was Wigan again. 

My parents used to take me to Cornwall camping when I was a kid. I remember the Mount in the bay, our campsite wasn't far from the heliport on the outskirts of Penzance. I used to love watching the helicopters taking off and landing to and from the Scilly Isles.

We're off to Porto next weekend for my birthday. Never been before but I've flown over it a few times and it looks nice from the air. I'm really looking forward to it, especially the port wine tasting. 

Cheers all.

Kev.

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Posted 13 Oct 2024 at 09:00

It was a close game, but Wigan were the better team, and it was a brilliant try by Bevan French.

I feel a bit pukey and headachey this morning, may be one of the 36 spicy chicken wings was past its sell by date. Just thinking about them makes me want to throw up. 🀒

Spongebob, I hope your curry and cider combo has treated you more kindly.

Kev are you a fellow Libran? I'm 68 tomorrow. The grandkids are doing me a birthday tea, God knows what that'll be. I just hope my stomach's recovered enough to take another beating.😬

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Posted 13 Oct 2024 at 10:27

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Kev are you a fellow Libran? I'm 68 tomorrow. The grandkids are doing me a birthday tea, God knows what that'll be. I just hope my stomach's recovered enough to take another beating.😬

Yes mate, I'll be 61 this Friday, another birthday in the bag after diagnosis eh πŸ‘πŸ»

Happy birthday for tomorrow Adrian, hopefully your grandkids cook up something nice, and I'm sure you'll wash it down with a beer or two 🍺

Cheers, 

Kev.

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Posted 13 Oct 2024 at 11:04

I didn't realise that you were only 61, a mere child in this aged community. I see the virtual pub carpark is full of motability scooters again. 😁

Yes, I'm nearly four years on after diagnosis and you're almost six? Doesn't time fly whilst you're enjoying yourself.

I have a feeling my birthday tea, although lovingly made by young grandkids, will be very irregular homemade sausage rolls, Nutella sarnies, unset jelly and ice cream and a homemade cake which will resemble a car crash. I will sit and pretend to love every gut churning mouthful. 😁

Edited by member 13 Oct 2024 at 15:52  | Reason: Typo

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Posted 13 Oct 2024 at 11:36

I was diagnosed 5 years ago officially on the 8th October ten days before my 56th birthday.

Although I knew on the 3rd when waiting for my biopsy results. I got a call from the hospital asking if I could come in to nuclear medicine for a scan, I was barely googling nuclear medicine when I got another call asking if I could attend a couple more appointments. I googled their names, an oncologist and a urologist, plus the bone scan told me that I must have cancer and gave me one hell of a weekend to remember, you know,  what music shall I have at my funeral? I was told officially by the oncologist on the 8th, we were actually relieved that it wasn't as bad as we feared. Crappy way to find out, but at least I had a weekend to get my head around things before the meeting.

Nutella sarnies! You lucky man. You could leave some on the bar of the virtual pub.

Cheers, 

Kev.

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Posted 25 Oct 2024 at 20:33


I’ve been decorating the dining room all week, scraping off the woodchip on the ceiling- oh what joy 😬.

My first car and pride & joy was an Austin Allegro πŸš™. It was great, well not the Allegro for as we all know an Allegro was the stereotypical old man’s rust bucket (possibly the most ‘beige’ thing known to man - oops sorry should say ‘known to person’ or ‘known to they’?).

But I’d learnt how to drive in a Fiat 500 so my car aspirations weren’t high (you started the engine by pulling up little leevers - anyway …). My Allegro was shiny navy blue, it looked fabulous, however got to admit that it was not quite as cool as the bright yellow one my teacher training mate from Croydon had at UEA, but in my mind mine was the bees knees. Also, my mate’s car did set on fire once whilst waiting at some traffic lights, so not that cool.

 


My shiny blue Allegro took me and the then girlfriend on a tour of the Isle of Mull and Ardnamurchan, that was back in the days when those parts were out of scope for the ordinary tourist. It was absolutely marvellous, miles and miles of single-track roads, sandy beaches and wilderness with no-one there. Good memories πŸ˜€.

 


My shiny blue Allegro had many faults, and I never got used to the windscreen wipers and the oil warning light was always on. Then one Friday evening I was driving down the M1 to Barnsley when it conked out good and proper. The RAC man told me that the oil pump had packed in and the engine had seized up ☹️.  So he gave me a tow to the girlfriends house and arranged to pick me and my shiny blue Allegro up on Sunday night to tow back to my local garage in Bradford (Fast car clinic) for a replacement re-conditioned engine to be fitted (£500 😡‍πŸ’«).

Fancy that with the RAC, we took good service like that for granted then. You would need Super dooper dooper cover (££££££s) for them to even consider helping you out of a hole like that in today’s world.


Oh well Chaps, hope all is well, have a good weekend, enjoy the footy 😬

Monsieur Le SpongeBob 

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Posted 25 Oct 2024 at 20:59

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
My shiny blue Allegro had many faults, and I never got used to the windscreen wipers and the oil warning light was always on.

Hi Spongebob.

They were often called Austin Allaggro.

It is a nightmare to remove woodchip wallpaper especially on a ceiling. Nearly as bad as Artex. 

You deserve a Friday night drink, mate.

Edited by member 25 Oct 2024 at 22:15  | Reason: Typo

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Posted 26 Oct 2024 at 10:47

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

 

But I’d learnt how to drive in a Fiat 500 so my car aspirations weren’t high (you started the engine by pulling up little leevers - anyway …). 

I learned to drive in a Fiat 127, the windscreen washer wasn't electric, but was a rubber bung on the dashboard that you had to squish. The exhaust manifold broke one day so me and my mate got another from a scrap yard. Cars were stacked on top of each other in those days, and we had to unbolt the manifold from a car that was on top of other cars. Crazy! I wouldn't do it now. 

As for Allegros, don't see many these days but I saw one in a motor museum this year. 

Cheers, 

Kev.

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Posted 05 Nov 2024 at 22:59

I was very moved by the Sir Chris Hoy interview. His story, especially as his wife has MS is heartbreaking. His honesty about how his diagnosis and treatment had affected him was remarkable. My heart goes out to him and his family.

I'm staying up all night watching the election. πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡²  but can't help thinking of the Hoys.

 

Edited by member 06 Nov 2024 at 02:38  | Reason: Additional text

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Posted 06 Nov 2024 at 08:02

Hi Adrian, I watched it too. He said about going on to a cancer ward for the first time and seeing really ill people. It reminded me of my first meeting with my oncologist, his office was in the Macmillan centre, and I was a little shocked at the really ill looking people sat in the lounge. 

It'll be interesting to see whether a screening program comes out of this. Hopefully it does, but I won't hold my breath. Hopefully Chris will be around for a long time.

I'm growing a moustache again as it's Movember, going for the pornstar look. My Mrs likes it but I find facial hair annoying after a couple of weeks or so. 

Cheers, 

Kev.

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Posted 06 Nov 2024 at 09:02

Morning Kev.

I agree mate, that bit about him describing seeing other very sick looking people and the fear he felt, was so touching. There were so many poignant parts, especially when he and his wife worked out a way to tell the children, and how his wife kept her MS diagnosis from him until she thought the family were able to deal with further bad news. It was truly heartbreaking. I hugely admire him for so eloquently expressing their dilemma. It very nearly brought me to tears.

I've always said on here, that it is the younger men who I feel for. It must be so more difficult to deal with the disease for those with younger children and work commitments. His story also clearly showed how important our wives and partners are and what strength and support they give. 

I'm also doing the Movember thing, but as you say keeping facial hair neat and tidy is a pain. I suppose I might end up with a porn star tache but that would be my only attribute for the job. My 'fluffers' would need to be dab hands at penile injecting. 😁 

Talking about pornstars, fancy Donald pulling it off again! 

 

Edited by member 06 Nov 2024 at 09:57  | Reason: Typo and additional text

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Posted 06 Nov 2024 at 14:46

Hello chaps, I’ve been a bit lax on visiting the pub… Been busy trying to feel better. 

Love the stories and chit chat πŸ‘.

My first car was a Triumph 1300 saloon. Bought because i was learning to drive in a Mini and really didn’t like it. The old Mini i’m talking about obviously as i think it might have been 1972 ish when i was 17.  It looked really nice but was seriously rotten inside. So i used my boatbuilding skills honed at school to repair it all with fibreglass. I had to repair all round the bottom of the windscreen and the rear pillars. Then spent a fortune on paint spray cans to cover it all up. Then when i came to sell it the buyer brought a mechanic with her and I thought oh no… But amazingly he said it was sound. Then i bought a Mk 1 Escort 1300 Sport. What a brilliant little car. Souped up the engine which was a gem, fitted Bilstein uprated suspension and springs , Mexico wheels. New wings and a complete respray. I did try twin 40 Webers once but they were too finicky. Even fitted carpets and the obligatory sheepskin rug in the back 😎. Also fitted a stonking cassette player and amplifier/speakers as the car didn’t come with a radio. Those were the days eh guys….

 

Regarding Allegros , i had a Marina Van once, just for a laugh, and I’ve never had a car so badly built. Even the body panels didn’t line up. It leaked up past the inner front LH wheel arch as there was a gap between panels… Had some nice cars over the years as i was lucky to have the money for new ones. Mk 2 and Mk 5 RS2000s, Golf GTi Cabrio and a Sierra 4X4 2.8 Estate to name a few but one of my favorites was a 70’s Audi 100S Coupe. It was a proper drug dealers car fitted with twin 45 Dellorto carbs but they used to ice up at motorway speeds which didn’t please the wife too much. So it had to go …!

 

I’ve not seen the Chris Hoy TV thing but I’ve seen snippets and do empathize with his situation but it must be doubly difficult for him being so young and with a young family. Isn’t it a shame that it takes a celebrity to shake things up with the Government though. Fingers crossed his Stage 4 diagnosis isn’t as bad as it sounds and he has a good few years left. He’s had/having chemo so it could halt the PCa progress for a long time if he’s lucky. I did notice he had cooled mittens/socks on to stop the Neuropathy in the fingers. Ive never seen that offered and i certainly didn’t get it and I’ve got a bit of nerve damage in my toes due to the chemo. Hoping it will possible get better.

 

Regarding the US election, I think we should all be very afraid as the guy is barking mad. It’s ok being isolationist but a country cannot exist in a vacuum. I love the US and the Americans but to think over 70mill voted for him is very worrying….. Need to wait to see what his actions will be with regard to foreign involvement in the current war situations. 

 

Take care guys,

Phil

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Posted 06 Nov 2024 at 17:37
So it was you that sold me that damn mini!
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Posted 06 Nov 2024 at 17:46

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Talking about pornstars, fancy Donald pulling it off again! 

330 million potential presidential candidates in the USA and that is the best that they can come up with 😱. Free world democracy in action - God help us all πŸ™. 

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Posted 09 Nov 2024 at 07:00

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
Free world democracy in action - God help us all πŸ™.

In a place, that seems full of 'God fearing folk', why do so many support the dodgy sheriff. 😁

Morning all.

I'm up bright and early as it's my grandson's 11th birthday. He's very, very special to me. When he was only months old his mum, my step daughter, unfortunately split up with his dad. She and 'the boy' moved in with us. For almost 3 years we raised him whilst his mum was at work. Initially, being almost sixty, I wasn't over keen on starting active parenting again, but gradually began to love it.

We saw him take his first steps, potty trained him, took him to preschool, read thousands of stories to him and I taught him to be sporty.

Obviously I'm biased, but I think he's grown into a really nice kid. Things have worked out well. His mum and dad get on better with each other than they've ever done and he has a brilliant step dad and a fab little sister.

Time flies. He's now as tall as his mum and next year will start 'big school'. In the next hour,  we will go to his house and take his presents, including this seasons Man Utd goalie kit.

Then we'll watch him play in a cup game. After that it's straight onto paint balling with all his footy team. It should be a great day. πŸ‘

I hope you all have a lovely weekend.

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Posted 09 Nov 2024 at 10:00

Happy birthday to the new young Schmeicel! Hope you have a great day, must be fantastic watching the kids playing football. 
Once I’ve shaken off last night’s hangover, I’ll be packing up the car for a week’s jolly up in the Lakes. Need a break from never ending decorating of the dining room. I’ve got some white Velspar paint that seems to be designed to drip everywhere.

Enjoy πŸ˜€

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Posted 09 Nov 2024 at 14:08

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
Happy birthday to the new young Schmeicel!

Cheers mate.

Unfortunately thus far today, like many of our treatment plans, has proved best made plans can go awry.

His team were knocked out of the Cup, lost 4-1, and he let in two soft goals. I only hope things improve and that no-one is maimed paintballing. 😁

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Posted 12 Nov 2024 at 15:31

Hi chaps. I do love reading your little stories and snippets of your life’s. It makes it all the more human than just reading about side effects and pills and treatments… 

Im slowly feeling better now although my Palliative nurse says my kidneys are having a little struggle so I’ve gotta drink more 😳… 

She also thinks that when I see my consultant next week he’ll want me to get restarted on the Chema as soon as possible. Not looking forward to it…! 

Did some painting this morning so having a rest this afternoon. Round youngest ones for tea this evening which will be nice. 

Hope you’re all good πŸ‘ 

Phil

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Posted 12 Nov 2024 at 17:15

I've been thinking of you Phil and I'm so pleased to hear that you're feeling a little better. It great that you're up to a bit of DIY again. Enjoy your tea mate and I hope you continue to improve.

My youngest lad sent me a big box of various strength ramen noodles. I've just had a hot chicken flavour. It nearly blew my head off. My nose started running, and I started sweating profusely. At least it's cleared my sinuses!

 
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