Hi jkw , sorry to hear about your diagnosis.
I had RT/HT just over a year ago and, common to a lot of people who have had similar treatment, I had 2 main side-effects of hot flushes/interrupted sleep and loss of libido. Tiredness was related to the lack of proper sleep and not particularly to the RT treatment. I did not gain a lot of weight.
I am over a year post RT and the main effects of my 2nd and last zoladex injection wore off last summer. I am pleased to say that my sleep is more or less back to normal. My sex drive is improving with the help of tadalafil but this aspect of our treatment is difficult to cope with.
I have had a few mild incontinence issues but, to be honest, my bladder was never the strongest before all this started anyway! I am doing kegal/bladder exercises and hopefully they might help.
With regard to your sporting activities - I have been a regular 5k park-runner and kept these runs up during and after my treatment. It is interesting to see how my times were affected. From being, on average, about a 24min finisher, I probably was about 6mins slower during my treatment. In recent months I am averaging 26mins. So, not quite back to where I was, but getting there and feeling stronger compared to a few months ago. I think regular exercise is very important for coping physically and mentally with what we go through and would encourage you to try to keep up your sport.
Good luck with everything!