Originally Posted by: Online Community MemberSince the operation, the relationship between myself & my wife has changed, as we dont seem so close anymore (which I put down to my issues plus we think she's pre menopausul). This is eating me up and really struggle with the new me.
My heart goes out to you mate. I was 15 years older than you and would have really struggled with the side effects at your age.
Even with Invicorp, sex is no where as good as it used to be. There's no spontaneity anymore. As a couple you will acclimatise. There are folk on here who've adapted better than me, but I'm afraid I'm old school, and think, selfishly, if there's no stiffy what's the point.
As I said Invicorp does work for me. There's an art to injecting and hitting the sweet spot, but when you do it works. Within 10 mins you can get an erection good enough for penetrative sex. Mine lasts for about 2 hours. So as not to waste it, for the remaining 1 hour 55mins, I bought some curtain rings and we play Hoopla with it.🙂
I'm not medically qualified and I don't know the chemical.difference between Caverject and Invicorp. But before giving in, despite the risk, if possible, I'd try a give Invicorp a go.