I am 54 and was recently diagnosed. PSA 34.6, no previous tests, T2A, Gleason 4+3. As per the forum topic, the cancer is localised although NHS do intend for me to get a PSMA scan. The oncologist strongly recommended the surgery option for me, primarily "because of my young age". At first I was resigned to this, and I have an uncle who had RP in 2011 with a good outcome. But after a lot of research online, admittedly including a lot of YouTube videos from "experts" who are usually in the US, I was strongly drawn towards RT which appears to have equal results but with reduced side-effects in all areas. However, the one great advantage of RP is the much lower chance of recurrance and I think that's where my age and life exptency come into it.
I'm left confused and it feels an impossible choice. I've mostly talked myself out of the surgery option, everything about RT nowadays seems better, although I understand 10+ years ago that wasn't always the case. Both RP and RT are offered to me, it was just that RP was the recommended route. If I take RT, I just worry that it might be a stupid choice that I will regret. Can anyone offer reassurance about RT? And especially, is there anyone here diagnosed in their 50s (or younger!) who can talk about the choice they made?
Although I don't have private medical insurance, I would consider paying for the procedure, within reason, if it was going to give me greater peace of mind. But from what I read on other threads here, the main draw would be a reduced number of RT fragments (5 instead of 20+), plus potentially no need for hormone therapy, but apart from that the outcomes would be pretty much the same.