Is this going to be the end?

Sorry to hear that it's spread so extensively.  I don't know what course of action your oncology team will recommend, but this certainly does not have to be the end.

For what it's worth, I had multiple mets in my pelvis, spine, ribs etc when I was diagnosed.  I was told that I may have another 3 to 5 years after the chemo- and radiotherapy I had back in 2019.  And over 5 years later, I'm feeling well, I'm out on my motorbike when the weather's decent or walking with my wife, and doing all the things I enjoy doing.  I won't pretend it's been without hitches, but there are fantastic resources ready to help you with anything that causes problems (such as pain, etc).

I know it's hard to find any positives and see past your diagnosis, but try not to let it take you over.  Keep doing what you enjoy, see what your oncology team offers and keep going, step by step.

Wishing you all the best.   

Hi Prince666,

I can’t add much to what’s already been said, but the waiting is always the worst. I know it’s very difficult but trying to stay positive really helps get you through this journey…and there are many on here who despite a poor prognosis are incredibly positive, quite inspirational in fact. I also find that at Maggies where I attend the Cancer Support Group,  and I’m wondering whether you might benefit from going along to have a chat with them if you have a Maggies Centre near you. it might not be for you(I thought it wasn’t for me either), but you won’t know unless you try it. I have gained immense support from everyone at Maggies,  as well as returning that to the many men who are newly diagnosed with PCa and other cancers.

I wish you all the best.

Derek

My oncologist once said something to me that really helped me:  "Don't make your life all about the disease."

You're still fit and active, so carry on doing what you do normally & enjoy while receiving your treatment.  There's no reason why you can't, unless you feel unwell on a particular day.  Personally, motorcycling has been amazing mental health therapy during my treatment and afterwards:  you have no choice but to be in the moment and not brooding about things.  If you get a bright, dry day, get out there and have a ride!