Hi Dave, good to see you got the key "<".
Re the Kegels, I had my RP two weeks before you and it wasn't until week 10 that I seemed to have a step change in my continence. I've eased off the Kegels a little - I was doing 6 reps of 10 fast&slow each day - but I began to realise that the Kegels were giving me the wrong impression about my recovery and were making the leaks worse later on during the evening. So I've switched to 4 reps starting at 2pm, which means I'm more or less pad free in the mornings. Things get a little worse as the day progresses, but even then only one light pad (if at home I wear boxers and maybe have a bit of dampness occasionally). My daily runs are a challenge, but they too are way better than just a couple of weeks ago. As I said, a "step change" around week 10.
So you may be closer than you think. I hope you are. I wonder if you too have sensed that the Kegels, though important, do actually seem to make matters worse for a short time after?
Personally, I find wearing pads to be uncomfortable. I've just received some washable underpants with little absorbency built in to try.