I would also consider how you feel you would react personally to the ‘watch and wait’ scenario! Could you cope with it mentally, or would you be in constant fret mode, wondering is the next psa/scan/biopsy going to show the cancer broken through the capsule? Also consider how often you would have to have biopsies to be certain everything being done to monitor (copeable with but not pleasant…so I’m told!)
When my husband was diagnosed last year Gleason 3+4, cancer in both sides of prostate, they offered surgery or AS and said it was totally our decision. We strongly considered AS because of the potential side effects of surgery, but after a few days thinking about it, knew that the constant worry would get to us so Steve had surgery in January this year.
Despite being in the thick of full incontinence and ED, he still believes he did the right thing, his histology showed cancer all contained so we view it out and gone!! We have lots of positivity going forward with the side effects!
I agree with what’s been said earlier…there’s a lot on here who feel they made a mistake with AS for various reasons, but there will be a lot more men out there who have never needed the support of this site so carry on regardless.
Good luck with your decision!
Debbie