Thank you for the replies. George is T4N1M1b, gleeson score of 9, age 57.
We had a follow up chest abdomen and pelvis CT on 31st August and were due to get repeat blood tests on 11th September, with an oncology follow up on 19th September.
Unfortunately on 2nd September George broke a rib from laughing, and on 5th September the left side of his face stopped moving. We were advised to go to A&E where George was diagnosed with Bells Palsey from skull mets pressing on his facial nerve. We left the hospital at midnight on 5th September and by 9am on 6th September we had a call from from his oncology team to get to the hospital. George has undergone 5 days of radiotherapy to his skull. The oncology team have been awesome - we have an appointment scheduled for 19th September to discuss how far the cancer has spread and where we go from here. Safe to say we are scared, anxious and just overwhelmed. I think when the oncologist says " I am so sorry this is happening to you so fast", this is not a good sign.
I though we would have longer on the Enza and George would be stable for a while, so I booked a holiday. It is in 4 weeks time - sea front, self catering, wheelchair friendly and 2 hours away from home. Do you think it is okay to say to the oncologist that we really need this?