Well, it's been exactly 12 months since my last post, and unfortunately this update isn't a good one.
Gee's November PSA was still up, at 1.5 and testosterone was 11. Though we were told it was most likely bounce.
Life carried on as normal, he enjoyed getting out on his bike, then from February 14th, things went from bad to worse, and on the 9th of March, he was hospitalised with AKI3 (acute kidney injury stage 3). He was kept in for 5 days, and when he was eventually discharged, no explanation was given as to what had caused it.
Three weeks later he was hospitalised again, with AKI3, again. This time his creatinine rose 1200, and his eGFR dropped to 4. No-one seemed to know what was causing it, so they continued to keep him on a drip. It was only after someone noticed his whole body starting to swell, that they decided they needed to take immediate action, and on Easter Sunday, at 10pm, they rushed him by ambulance to another hospital, for an emergency nephrostomy.
While in surgery they noticed a tumour blocking the ureters, so did a TURBT (transurethral resection of bladder tumour). He now has a right nephrostomy and left stent. He was immediately given 2 Degarelix injections in his stomach, as his PSA was 6.7
The bone scan showed one hotspot on a rib, so he is oligometastatic.
Blood tests two days after surgery showed his creatinine had recovered to 108.
After a month he was started on Prostap3, again, and six weeks later his PSA was 0.8, his creatinine was 80 and his eGFR had recovered to 85.
His oncologist said that she wouldn't start him on anything else until he'd had another PSA in 2 months, but that it would probably be Abiraterone & Prednisolone, or maybe a Trial at The Christie that he was eligible for, but she didn't say which.
We researched what we could, and he decided he'd probably choose the trial.
When we saw his Onco last Monday, she said PSA was up at 1.5 but that she wasn't concerned. Then she said he would be starting Darolutamide by the end of the week. I asked about the trial and Abi, but she said she didn't remember.
So, Gee is on day 3 of Darolutamide, and is hoping to get a dentist appointment next week, ready for them starting him on bone strengthening medication.
There is a lot more that has gone on, so I will update our profile over time.
We can't believe that it has come back, only 18 months after ADT ended. He was feeling stronger, his legs were getting hairier, and his libido was returning.
Best wishes to all taking the time to read this.
Elle & Gee xx
Edited by member 26 Jul 2026 at 09:01
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