Hi Murdock
We actually feel OK
His father had Prostate cancer in1990 and lived till 2021, passing away at 93. RT was bit cruder then but he did extremely well.
We have just confirmed a holiday for June, and looking forward to taking granddaughters out. He is fit and active, in every sense of the word. Being able to go walking a lot straight from our house into the countryside, we feel is very lucky. He has a supportive GP. We are glad it's being treated, and that we live a fairly close ride to hospital.
Sex is still great and we are prepared to do whatever it takes to keep it like that as I have always had a very high sexdrive, and so has he. I am working on making our diet healthier , cutting out red meat, processed food, and going organic.
We have an allotment we like to both work on so he dug up some leeks today for leek and potato soup.
I think the important thing is to try to gain a kind of control so you feel less of a victim. That does help to lift some of the anxiety.
Unfortunately you are still in the worst place, waiting. Once you know what's going on, and have a plan I do feel your mood will improve. Stay as calm as you can, and just time pass