His dose is 3mg/1.5ml every 4 hours - sorry, should have provided a more precise measure. His palliative care doctor at the hospital suggested this was a low starting dose and should be reasonably well tolerated.
However it's not just excessive tiredness, he has behaved like a zombie since coming home, has difficulty understanding simple instructions, barely speaks and has hardly eaten for a few days. Rejects even his favourite food. Sleeps most of the time, but when we wake him at night to give him his midnight dose, we have found him looking dazed and staring blankly at the ceiling which never fails to give us a terrible shock, especially when it takes him a while to respond to us...!
The hospice has suggested stretching out the intervals in between morphine doses to see how it goes... we're starting on 6 hourly intervals today. His kidneys are moderately impaired so he might have difficulty clearing out the morphine fast enough....
This is so incredibly hard for us...
Thanks for the helpful replies. Will look forward to the day he develops better tolerance to the opioids or they may have to switch him to something else.