I am on here now updating my situation, as you have all been so kind as to help with your comments.
I am now planned for radiotherapy - yaaay. Have had the planning ct, just an mri to go, and the sessions start on 27th February, 20 sessions in all. I had my hernia surgery on 16th January, and have made an amazing recovery from this. The oncologist was pleased and gave the go ahead to start the treatment.
One thing I am a little confused about is the time of arrival at the hospital. My RT treatment is at 9.10, every day the same fortunately, but I have been given a time to pass urine and start drinking which is 45 minutes before. I am very fortunate in that I am eligible for patient transport, and my grand daughter is a planner for this!! I was a bit uncertain that I might be getting preferential treatment because of her, but no, everyone in my situation is automatically entitled to it.
I have to give her the details for the planning now. Any of you on here that has gone through this, would you recommend that they plan to have me at the hospital for the earlier drink time, rather than the RT time. I can easily drink on route, but am a little nervous of traffic interfering, or some other unforseen situation preventing me getting there in time.
I am getting a bit panicky now I think, more to do with making sure all the elements of the treatment are in place than the actual treatment. I did notice when I was there for the planning ct, several men sitting in the waiting room with their little drink bottles and waiting, but a couple just turned up with a bottle in hand and went straight through. They could have been sitting elsewhere of course I guess. And then there is all the bowel emptying as well, getting that right. It's very complicated isn't it.
anyway, if anyone has anything to tell me that will help me get this all straight in my head I'd appreciate it. I find to have advice for people who have been through it is more valuable than advice even from the hospital staff.