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User
Posted 18 Nov 2024 at 10:26

Hi

Sorry for the long first post !

I've been recently diagnosed T2 and Gleason 7 (4+3), currently contained in prostate.  MRI showed 12mm lesion

I'm not sure if this has all actually sunk in yet and, unfortunately, I've never been the most optimistic person.  I always expect the worst and if it doesn't happen then it's a bonus.

I have a couple of questions if anyone can advise please.

Although the diagnosis process seemed to be reasonably quick, I actually had the PSA blood results back in September (now November).   Never had PSA test before so don't have point of reference.  I have an appointment with an oncologist in a few days but have another 3 week wait after that for the urologist.

It will then be another wait for whatever treatment I choose - another thing I'm really dreading.  I've been told that surgery could be up to 3 months.  Don't know about radiation if I have that option.  So that could potentially be up to 7 months from the initial blood test and 4 or 5 months from diagnosis. I don't know what to choose but I don't want to be forced down one route just because I might get the treatment quicker.

I know the information says that prostate cancer is usually slow growing.  But it's that word "usually" that gets me.  I obviously have no idea how long it's already been there.  I was also told before the biopsy that the lesion was close to the edge of the prostate which is another worry.  I don't know how close to the edge.

 Think I'm just looking for a bit of reassurance from anyone with experience that it's not likely to spread any time soon.  But I know everyone is different.    But I also think I just need to get my feelings out there, whether anyone reads this or not !

The other question was about PSMA Pet scans.  Since these seem to be more accurate I don't know why they only seem to be used for recurrent cancer rather than during initial diagnosis ?  Is this just a lack of availability or resourcing issue (NHS) ?  Surely if a more sensitive scan picks something up then it would affect the treatment plan ?   I'm even debating seeing if I could pay for one privately but have no idea of cost or how to go about this.  

If you've got this far then thanks for reading :-)

John

 

 

User
Posted 19 Nov 2024 at 17:29

Hi John, 

My diagnosis was very similar to yours. My thought process at the time was that I wanted AS, but that wasn't an option with 4+3=7. I didn't fancy a couple of years on HT but as it happened, the MDT recommended surgery anyway. I didn't fancy the prospect of ED but I was suitable for nerve sparing surgery. I went along with the MDT's recommendation mostly because I was leaning that way. My oncologist was with the MDT but said he would treat me if I changed my mind. Ultimately the final decision was mine. 

You might find that you get similar advice once the MDT has met and discussed your case. It may be surgery or RT/HT. 

All I can say is to read up on the treatment options, risks and side effects etc of either. Have plenty of questions written down to ask your oncologist and urologist.

Hope this helps. 

Good luck.

Kev.

User
Posted 19 Nov 2024 at 16:44

Hi

Obviously I'll know more after speaking to both the oncologist and urologist but I'm assuming I'll have the option of surgery or radiation.

I'm dreading having to make the decision between the two as I'm terrible at making decisions at the best of times, but this is literally a potential life changing decision.

I've never had any kind of surgery before so even the thought of the surgery itself scares me, let alone the side effects.  But that shouldn't be my defining factor - it should be the ultimate long term outcome.

Much like everything in life people will have had good and bad experiences with either option.  If your experience was bad then you'll think - "I really wish I'd gone for the other option"

I'd be really interested to hear other peoples' thought process when they made their own choice and why they ultimately went that way.

Thanks all

John

 

User
Posted 22 Nov 2024 at 16:55

Hi John

I have put a few posts on here (Freddy) which you can take a look at but my determining factor was once you have RT you cannot have it again in the same place.

All the best in what you decide.

Freddy

User
Posted 11 Dec 2024 at 17:56

All surgeries have risks. I haven't heard of anyone die of prostatectomy; that is the good news. Recovery can be quite straight forward or difficult. Chances of incontinence nowadays are low, ED problem is under estimated; consultants tend to be over optimistic. I had surgery 13 years ago, suffer from very minor incontinence and permanent ED. We consider ourselves very lucky, enjoying our life in all its aspects.

If you go for surgery or any other options be confident and positive. Remember a lot of healing takes place in your brain. You are relatively young; I had my surgery at 72. Because you are young you have a good chance of recovering your sexual function, but in my opinion vast majority of men undergoing prostatectomies don't achieve 100% sexual function post surgery. 

Good luck - we all need that.

 'Physics is like sex: sure, it may give some practical results, but that’s not why we do it.'                    Richard Feynman (1918-1988) Nobel Prize laureate

 

 

User
Posted 18 Nov 2024 at 11:47

On the question of timing, you might find it reassuring to have a look at this (American) video - a lot of it is interesting but the section from 11.02 addresses the question specifically for Gleason 7 patients.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aotF2SPzCmU

On PSMA PET scans I think you are right and that they should ideally be used for initial diagnosis as well as in the context of recurrence because they are much better at detecting spread than the traditional bone scans which have been used in the past. If they are not yet being offered routinely then it probably is often a matter of resources.

Best wishes for your future treatment

User
Posted 18 Nov 2024 at 14:47

Hi again John.

Regarding your information, its best to put as much as you can on your profile, mate. If you do that, it will save you having to repeat yourself in other conversations.

Obviously it's not good to see any PSA rise, and I understand your concern, however, it's not always a sign of disease progression. You haven't had enough tests yet to show if its a continuous rise. At least you are now in good hands, I'd be expressing your concerns assertively but politely to your oncologist/urologist.

User
Posted 18 Nov 2024 at 16:31

Your Gleason score is very favourable but remember that it is a very simple guide. You can only have certainty if you have prostatectomy and then the Gleason score can be confirmed - it may go down or up. In the mean time, if you can afford to have a private PSMA imaging carried out you will know about the extent of the spread and   particularly about the clear margins at the boundary of the gland; this will give some indication of the severity of the cancer. My Gleason score before and after the surgery was 3+4 & 4+3 (less favourable then yours).That was 13 years ago at the age of 72. Unfortunately, depending on your nature, the anxiety will accompany you, as mine does even now, through your journey; it does get better. I think so far you are in a good place. The quality of treatment in the last decade has improved a great deal and the success rates have improved since my surgery. Good luck.

Edited by member 18 Nov 2024 at 16:34  | Reason: Not specified

 'Physics is like sex: sure, it may give some practical results, but that’s not why we do it.'                    Richard Feynman (1918-1988) Nobel Prize laureate

 

 

User
Posted 18 Nov 2024 at 16:44

John,

Here in the states PSMA PETS are standard after the Biopsy, as are Mp MRI’s prior to biopsy for most the physician’s dealing with initial diagnosis and staging of prostate cancer prior to treatment decision. The PET’s are important for seeing metastatic disease, which bone scans in the past were often used and still are.

Certainly understand your concern over aggressive or advanced but that often is typically important in determining treatment but not necessarily aggressiveness in speed of your cancer actually growing inside of you. Yes its optimum to get the cancer before its breeched the capsule, but even when it has, it not considered metastasized. Most treatment options are still available. Studies have shown up to six months from diagnosis to treatment has shown it does not affect outcome of the treatments.

Good luck! 

User
Posted 18 Nov 2024 at 21:52

Hi John 

Sorry that you’ve had to join us.

My first PSA was in mid June, followed by a second in July, then MRI and biopsy leading to diagnosis on 11 September and so your timescales are pretty consistent. I then had a 4 week wait to see the urologist and we decided on surgery a few days later. I was offered a surgery date of early December but I want to wait until early January so that I can have a special Christmas with the family. 

You’ll go through a range of emotions on this journey, but over time you start to make sense of it. I found the hardest parts to be the waiting between appointments and then having the option to choose a treatment option, but once you have made this decision it becomes a little easier. Try and keep yourself busy and enjoy any hobbies to distract you from the anxiety. 

I haven’t been offered a PET Scan as it’s contained to the prostate, however the surgeon said he can’t see the tumour in one side of the prostate from the MRI and so perhaps I should have pushed for one!! 

Wishing you all the best 

User
Posted 19 Nov 2024 at 17:40

John,

I was very scared of surgery and side effects  including just the thought of a catheter for 10 days. Both surgery and radiation have side effects some overlap and others like rectal are radiation. Today versus years ago leaps in technology have come to minimize side effects in both procedures. Surgery with Puboprostatic ligament sparing, and Retzius sparing along with procedure technique to reduce or eliminate incontinence. Nerve sparing for ED issues and Robotic Single port entry for overall quicker surgery recovery. Now with Radiation, the development of Space Oar Hydrogel is used to minimize rectal side effects. 
For me choosing Surgery also had to do knowing that I would still have Radiation as a backup and approaching 71 the window to receiving surgery was getting closer to close regardless approaching 75 but sooner if my health were to deteriorate for any other reasons and preclude surgery. Salvage Radiation is much easier than a Salvage surgery as the surgery is considered much more difficult and done only by certain surgeons very experienced in that salvage surgery. Twenty years ago I had non-hodgkins lymphoma and my Oncologist recommended a lower chemotherapy regimen than CHOP saying we wanted to keep that in reserve for relapse or transformation. I liked having that as backup and I was blessed to go into remission and remain.

Another reason I chose surgery was that while I was in surgery after the prostate was removed and tissue to check on margins the tissue was sent immediately to the hospital pathology for staining to see whether I had clear margins. This clearly delays the closing of the surgery and in my case my margins did come back positive which surprised the surgeon because based on the hundreds of tissue he visually has seen in surgery which he did not see anything unusual and the PET scan saying it was contained within the prostate really was a surprise. Many Surgeons do not bother with this and at your post surgery appointment they give you the disappointing news that you have positive margin. Well my Surgeon was then able to go back in for 2 more hours delicately continuing nerve sparing and cut for more margin and at my post surgery appointment I was told the final margin was then negative. Without that additional step of my tissue going to pathology I would have been told at my post surgery appointment that unfortunately you have positive margin as many are. His afternoon surgery appointment got delayed by two hours by the surprised breeching of the capsule by the cancer. Immediately upon my catheter coming out I was continent and have minimal ED side effects 90 days out with more improvement expected. I was up walking immediately after surgery and did not even spend that night after surgery in the hospital. Within two weeks I was back to normal activities like driving and getting out and around and traveling. Although my catheter was in for 10 days that was due to a 3 day holiday period but that allowed my surgery to continue to heal. Now on a downside I did get a blood clot in my leg from the surgery likely due to my surgery taking much longer than expected but blood clots are a side effect of any surgery not tied to prostate surgery. Anyways my thoughts on my direction I chose.

User
Posted 19 Nov 2024 at 20:11
Hi, It is the most difficult decision most of us have to make, I was advised to go onto the NHS Prostrate predict and after seeing there was little difference in perecentage of success I went with 3months HT (Bicalutamide) and 20 fractions of Radiotherapy, my Radiotherapy finished June 2023 and my PSA is now at 0.5, I have no regrets on my decision, but once I made it I felt relieved and just got on with it, cheers John
User
Posted 20 Nov 2024 at 19:17

Hi jarweb,

You asked how people chose between Radiotherapy or Surgery.

I chose surgery over Radio Therapy/ Hormone Therapy because I didn't want the H.T. to interfere with my sex drive.  The Radiologist was not happy to give just the R.T. without the H.T., so surgery it was for me.

I have enduring urinary incontinence following the surgery (as well as Erectile Dysfunction) so, surgery has not been a walk in the park for me, but with Alprostadil injections I have been able to adapt to a (kind of) sex life. And I still enjoy a healthy sex drive.  

Horses for courses...

Best wishes in whatever you decide to do.

JedSee.

User
Posted 20 Nov 2024 at 20:17

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Hi Ned

Thanks for your feedback.  That all sounds very positive but, unfortunately, I'm not sure many of the techniques or processes you mentioned are actually available to me (UK NHS).

I agree.

Ned was operated on in America. He appears to have had access to procedures that are very uncommon here. I've not heard from anyone on the NHS who've been fortunate enough to have margins checked mid prostatectomy. I've seen on TV, eminent UK surgeons, checking margins during other very serious and complex cancer operations, but not during prostate removal. 

Likewise, the single port, puboprostatic ligament, Retizus sparing prostatectomy maybe available here,  but I suspect only in specific hospitals. It was certainly not offered to me.

Ned also mentions that in America PSMA PET scans are standard after biopsy. It seems that here you often have to be have to virtually on deaths door to get one.

Perhaps, it shows that if you have the disease, America is the place to be?

I was just grateful, despite having to wait 6 months, to get the bog standard 'whip it out' op, in good old Blighty. 😁

Edited by member 20 Nov 2024 at 20:34  | Reason: Additional text

User
Posted 20 Nov 2024 at 20:58

Hi,

They do that in the UK in a small number of hospitals. I had it on the NHS back in 2019.

Neurosafe with frozen section during Radical Prostatectomy. 

Basically they have a (pathologist?) in the next room who performs a check on the prostate while you're still on the operating table.

I had a conversation with my surgeon a few months after surgery, there was a positive margin and he described how he used the robot to apply heat to burn the area before closing me up. The positive margin was documented in my post op histology. 

Cheers, 

Kev.

 

Edited by member 20 Nov 2024 at 21:01  | Reason: Typo

User
Posted 20 Nov 2024 at 21:33

Probably costs a bit and takes some organising too. My hospital was/is a centre of excellence for urology so I'm lucky to have it on my doorstep. I think there are a couple of places in London offering the same. I know of another member on here who went down the private route, think he got a nice room whereas I was on the ward overlooking St Evenage.

Cheers, 

Kev.

User
Posted 22 Nov 2024 at 16:41

Hi

Had meeting with oncologist a couple of days ago.  Again, don't know if it's just an NHS or resource thing, but she said they still radiate the whole prostate rather than focal, with the potential side effects of that.  Don't know if focal is still fairly new so long term results not known ?  Or just most of the NHS is still a bit behind on techniques and technology.

Without outright recommending it, she said that they'd normally go for surgery for someone of my age and general health.    The cynic in me wonders if she just doesn't want additional work for the department.  :-)    Yes, I know it's ridiculous.

Still got a few weeks to wait for urology appointment so will see what that brings. 

Still hate the thought of having to choose.  If it was a heart condition etc where they said you could keel over at any point if you don't get this surgery then fine, choice made.  But having to choose between two different options and then later wondering if you made the right choice is terrible.

Anyway - another vent over.  Thanks for reading if you did.

Cheers

 

User
Posted 23 Nov 2024 at 13:42

Hi John,

I’m now 57, diagnosed June 23 with 3+3 Gleason, Med team advised AS, I was all for having it out. Ended up on AS by default due to timescales here in the West Midlands. At 12 months, my PSA was going down, still is, and 2nd MRI was more favourable than the first one. 2nd Biopsies were delayed 6 months on advice from Med team. Had 2nd biopsies 23 Oct, one core with 3+4 and one core with 4+3, Med team recommending removal, will take 2-3 months.

As others have said, if you have removal then other options are still available if cancer were to come back inc RT. If you have RT, removal may not be possible further down the line. 

Again as others have said, everyone is different. For me, my decision will not be based on side-effects, as much as yes would love to avoid them if poss. My top priority is to hopefully still be here for another 15, 20, 25 yrs and, for me, it seems removal gives that the best hope. 

There is no easy answer and sadly not enough long term study data (10-years or more surveys) to make the decision any easier. Keep checking online for all the info you can gather to help. Some good stuff on YouTube about different approaches to removal and trying to avoid side effects as much as possible. 

wishing you all the best

Jon

User
Posted 23 Nov 2024 at 17:42

Hi John,

Yes, at the moment I am in the NHS system in Worcestershire. My latest biopsy results meeting was with a locum consultant but I believe that all results and recommendations come from a meeting of the medical team that is headed by one of the main NHS urology consultant's covering the Worcestershire area. The main reason given for their removal recommendation was my age. He said that if I were 75 years old with say a 10-15 years life expectancy ahead of me, their recommendation might be different. He mentioned that radiation can lead to issues on a 10-year or so timescale with possible bowel cancer and if radiation were used now, that would not be an option for me if that were to arise in 10 years time when I would be 67 years old. Whether this is official NHS policy I cannot say but it does seem to accord with lots of views that you can find online.

Going back to my previous post (everyone is different...), another factor for my situation could be that, what is regarded as a slow growing cancer has gone from 3+3 Gleason to a mix of 3+4 and 4+3 Gleason in just 18 months from at 56 to 57. My PSA was 4.4 at the highest last year and was just 0.85 two months ago. Maybe the 2nd biopsy results are way ahead of the usual curve that they expect to see. I am due a consultation meeting with the lead consultant in February (!) when I would hope to find out more info if nothing changes before then.

Jon           

User
Posted 15 Dec 2024 at 20:55

Hi John,

I found stats about side effects intimidating because they can make you feel like almost guaranteed to get them. When you see (and this is just a figure out of the air, not real), 42% of men get ED beyond two years, that is a scary number but it means over half don’t.

Only time will tell whether the Retzius Sparing RALP that had last week will actually help avoid the side effects but already I am sleeping better at night (metaphorically and physically) knowing that, for now at least, the cancer is out. Having the cancer inside me getting more aggressive with the possibility it could have spread was more scary than the risk of the side effects. Having a high volume surgeon undoubtedly helps in that regard under the mantra of “Practice makes perfect” for most things in life.

I wish you well and whilst things may be scary now and I felt the same, sometimes the decision is the hardest bit. Once made, things will be easier. Hopefully.

Jon

User
Posted 16 Dec 2024 at 10:25

In my experience the NHS, especially its anaesthetists,  go to great lengths not to operate on anyone, if there's a risk they might not wake up.  

If they think you're a risky patient in that respect, they won't operate on you in the first place. 

User
Posted 19 Dec 2024 at 18:05

John,

Six months is not considered an issue from initial tests. Studies have shown that the same outcome is achieved if treatment is started 3 months or 6 months. Its really hard anyway to go from initial PSA concerns, another month for a recheck, on to a month to get MpMri, wait a week or two results, then maybe two weeks to a month for biopsy, then waiting time results, then maybe another two weeks + for a PSMA Pet, then results, then referrals to Radiation Oncologist’s and Surgical Oncologist’s for consultation then after deciding another four to six weeks for surgery. You certainly hear about someone doing all this in three months but boy all the stars had to line up. I was six months to my surgery. Good luck!

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User
Posted 18 Nov 2024 at 10:57

Hi John, 

I can't really answer the technical questions but I can offer some reassurance. 

I was diagnosed over 5 years ago with a T2 4+3=7 and I'm still here alive and well. I won't deny that it's been a difficult journey at times but my latest PSA result is now undetectable. 

Hopefully others on this great site will add their positive experiences and advice. 

Good luck, 

Kev.

User
Posted 18 Nov 2024 at 11:47

On the question of timing, you might find it reassuring to have a look at this (American) video - a lot of it is interesting but the section from 11.02 addresses the question specifically for Gleason 7 patients.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aotF2SPzCmU

On PSMA PET scans I think you are right and that they should ideally be used for initial diagnosis as well as in the context of recurrence because they are much better at detecting spread than the traditional bone scans which have been used in the past. If they are not yet being offered routinely then it probably is often a matter of resources.

Best wishes for your future treatment

User
Posted 18 Nov 2024 at 12:17

Thanks Kev & KS25 for the replies.

Yeah - I've been watching a lot of the PCRI Youtube videos and did see that one a while ago.  It was actually these that initially alerted me to the newer PSMA pet scans as the main man in the videos mentions them a LOT in the more recent videos.  But with a lot of the newer methods and technologies these people mention,  it depends on availability and where you live. 

I know the NHS does have the scanners available but, as I said, the scans aren't used routinely during diagnosis.  I just think this could potentially pick up disease that may have already spread that the MRI and bone scans didn't. 

I could be wrong but I assume surgery would be pointless if there has already been any kind of spread, even small ?

Thanks

 

 

User
Posted 18 Nov 2024 at 12:57

Dr Scholz does mention PSMA PET scans a lot - he believes that they are a massive step forward in prostate cancer treatment, comparable to the discovery of PSA itself.

One of the ways that they are changing things is that they are  opening up the possibility of attempting curative treatment even for some men with only a few spots of metastatic spread, whereas in the past any evidence of spread would generally mean moving straight onto systemic treatments like hormone therapy and/or chemotherapy.

I don't know if radiotherapy for metastatic spots could be combined with surgery ( and I imagine Dr Scholz would not advocate surgery in any circumstances) but it might well mean that radiotherapy was still a possibility.

But let's hope that this proves to be an academic issue in your case.

User
Posted 18 Nov 2024 at 13:10

Hi John.

I'm sorry that you've had to join us but welcome to the forum.

 I know you hate 'usually' to describe possible disease progression and treatment outcomes, but as you say,  everyone is different and there are no certainties.

What age are you mate and what is your PSA?

In general, your staging and Gleason score is about the average diagnosis for folk on here. I'm not medically qualified, but would say that although its always nice to get sorted asap, that in your case there is no need to rush anything. I don't think there's any need to concerning yourself over advanced scans, or spending any dosh on private treatment.

In relation to your surgery enquiry, the cut off point seems to generally be T3b staging. I had surgery when mine had breached the prostate capsule (T3a) and I had a high Gleason 9 (4+5). Two years later my PSA is undetectable. 

I know how difficult it is, especially if you're a bit of a pessimist, to see the positives, but you're in a decent position mate. The treatment timescales you've mentioned seem normal. I ended up waiting 6  months for my op.

I wish you all the best.👍

User
Posted 18 Nov 2024 at 13:26

Hi Adrian - thanks for reply.

Sorry, should probably have given more info initially but my post was already very long !

I turned 59 just at the final confirmation stage - happy birthday to me.

When I got the initial PSA test done at the GP the PSA was 7.9.  But they took bloods again just before the biopsy a month later and I only found out last week that the PSA at that time was 9.8 

This REALLY shocked and worried me and I phoned the specialist NHS nurse who said "don't worry about it" - not easy to do.  She said your PSA can vary day to day - don't know how true this is or if it can vary by that much. 

I think this has really added to my concern about the waiting just now.  I'd have been worried if the PSA jumped 2 points over a year, never mind a month.

Thanks

 

User
Posted 18 Nov 2024 at 14:47

Hi again John.

Regarding your information, its best to put as much as you can on your profile, mate. If you do that, it will save you having to repeat yourself in other conversations.

Obviously it's not good to see any PSA rise, and I understand your concern, however, it's not always a sign of disease progression. You haven't had enough tests yet to show if its a continuous rise. At least you are now in good hands, I'd be expressing your concerns assertively but politely to your oncologist/urologist.

User
Posted 18 Nov 2024 at 16:31

Your Gleason score is very favourable but remember that it is a very simple guide. You can only have certainty if you have prostatectomy and then the Gleason score can be confirmed - it may go down or up. In the mean time, if you can afford to have a private PSMA imaging carried out you will know about the extent of the spread and   particularly about the clear margins at the boundary of the gland; this will give some indication of the severity of the cancer. My Gleason score before and after the surgery was 3+4 & 4+3 (less favourable then yours).That was 13 years ago at the age of 72. Unfortunately, depending on your nature, the anxiety will accompany you, as mine does even now, through your journey; it does get better. I think so far you are in a good place. The quality of treatment in the last decade has improved a great deal and the success rates have improved since my surgery. Good luck.

Edited by member 18 Nov 2024 at 16:34  | Reason: Not specified

 'Physics is like sex: sure, it may give some practical results, but that’s not why we do it.'                    Richard Feynman (1918-1988) Nobel Prize laureate

 

 

User
Posted 18 Nov 2024 at 16:44

John,

Here in the states PSMA PETS are standard after the Biopsy, as are Mp MRI’s prior to biopsy for most the physician’s dealing with initial diagnosis and staging of prostate cancer prior to treatment decision. The PET’s are important for seeing metastatic disease, which bone scans in the past were often used and still are.

Certainly understand your concern over aggressive or advanced but that often is typically important in determining treatment but not necessarily aggressiveness in speed of your cancer actually growing inside of you. Yes its optimum to get the cancer before its breeched the capsule, but even when it has, it not considered metastasized. Most treatment options are still available. Studies have shown up to six months from diagnosis to treatment has shown it does not affect outcome of the treatments.

Good luck! 

User
Posted 18 Nov 2024 at 21:52

Hi John 

Sorry that you’ve had to join us.

My first PSA was in mid June, followed by a second in July, then MRI and biopsy leading to diagnosis on 11 September and so your timescales are pretty consistent. I then had a 4 week wait to see the urologist and we decided on surgery a few days later. I was offered a surgery date of early December but I want to wait until early January so that I can have a special Christmas with the family. 

You’ll go through a range of emotions on this journey, but over time you start to make sense of it. I found the hardest parts to be the waiting between appointments and then having the option to choose a treatment option, but once you have made this decision it becomes a little easier. Try and keep yourself busy and enjoy any hobbies to distract you from the anxiety. 

I haven’t been offered a PET Scan as it’s contained to the prostate, however the surgeon said he can’t see the tumour in one side of the prostate from the MRI and so perhaps I should have pushed for one!! 

Wishing you all the best 

User
Posted 19 Nov 2024 at 16:44

Hi

Obviously I'll know more after speaking to both the oncologist and urologist but I'm assuming I'll have the option of surgery or radiation.

I'm dreading having to make the decision between the two as I'm terrible at making decisions at the best of times, but this is literally a potential life changing decision.

I've never had any kind of surgery before so even the thought of the surgery itself scares me, let alone the side effects.  But that shouldn't be my defining factor - it should be the ultimate long term outcome.

Much like everything in life people will have had good and bad experiences with either option.  If your experience was bad then you'll think - "I really wish I'd gone for the other option"

I'd be really interested to hear other peoples' thought process when they made their own choice and why they ultimately went that way.

Thanks all

John

 

User
Posted 19 Nov 2024 at 17:29

Hi John, 

My diagnosis was very similar to yours. My thought process at the time was that I wanted AS, but that wasn't an option with 4+3=7. I didn't fancy a couple of years on HT but as it happened, the MDT recommended surgery anyway. I didn't fancy the prospect of ED but I was suitable for nerve sparing surgery. I went along with the MDT's recommendation mostly because I was leaning that way. My oncologist was with the MDT but said he would treat me if I changed my mind. Ultimately the final decision was mine. 

You might find that you get similar advice once the MDT has met and discussed your case. It may be surgery or RT/HT. 

All I can say is to read up on the treatment options, risks and side effects etc of either. Have plenty of questions written down to ask your oncologist and urologist.

Hope this helps. 

Good luck.

Kev.

User
Posted 19 Nov 2024 at 17:40

John,

I was very scared of surgery and side effects  including just the thought of a catheter for 10 days. Both surgery and radiation have side effects some overlap and others like rectal are radiation. Today versus years ago leaps in technology have come to minimize side effects in both procedures. Surgery with Puboprostatic ligament sparing, and Retzius sparing along with procedure technique to reduce or eliminate incontinence. Nerve sparing for ED issues and Robotic Single port entry for overall quicker surgery recovery. Now with Radiation, the development of Space Oar Hydrogel is used to minimize rectal side effects. 
For me choosing Surgery also had to do knowing that I would still have Radiation as a backup and approaching 71 the window to receiving surgery was getting closer to close regardless approaching 75 but sooner if my health were to deteriorate for any other reasons and preclude surgery. Salvage Radiation is much easier than a Salvage surgery as the surgery is considered much more difficult and done only by certain surgeons very experienced in that salvage surgery. Twenty years ago I had non-hodgkins lymphoma and my Oncologist recommended a lower chemotherapy regimen than CHOP saying we wanted to keep that in reserve for relapse or transformation. I liked having that as backup and I was blessed to go into remission and remain.

Another reason I chose surgery was that while I was in surgery after the prostate was removed and tissue to check on margins the tissue was sent immediately to the hospital pathology for staining to see whether I had clear margins. This clearly delays the closing of the surgery and in my case my margins did come back positive which surprised the surgeon because based on the hundreds of tissue he visually has seen in surgery which he did not see anything unusual and the PET scan saying it was contained within the prostate really was a surprise. Many Surgeons do not bother with this and at your post surgery appointment they give you the disappointing news that you have positive margin. Well my Surgeon was then able to go back in for 2 more hours delicately continuing nerve sparing and cut for more margin and at my post surgery appointment I was told the final margin was then negative. Without that additional step of my tissue going to pathology I would have been told at my post surgery appointment that unfortunately you have positive margin as many are. His afternoon surgery appointment got delayed by two hours by the surprised breeching of the capsule by the cancer. Immediately upon my catheter coming out I was continent and have minimal ED side effects 90 days out with more improvement expected. I was up walking immediately after surgery and did not even spend that night after surgery in the hospital. Within two weeks I was back to normal activities like driving and getting out and around and traveling. Although my catheter was in for 10 days that was due to a 3 day holiday period but that allowed my surgery to continue to heal. Now on a downside I did get a blood clot in my leg from the surgery likely due to my surgery taking much longer than expected but blood clots are a side effect of any surgery not tied to prostate surgery. Anyways my thoughts on my direction I chose.

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Posted 19 Nov 2024 at 18:37

Hi Ned

Thanks for your feedback.  That all sounds very positive but, unfortunately, I'm not sure many of the techniques or processes you mentioned are actually available to me (UK NHS).  But I can certainly mention these to the urologist for info.  

Cheers

 

 

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Posted 19 Nov 2024 at 20:11
Hi, It is the most difficult decision most of us have to make, I was advised to go onto the NHS Prostrate predict and after seeing there was little difference in perecentage of success I went with 3months HT (Bicalutamide) and 20 fractions of Radiotherapy, my Radiotherapy finished June 2023 and my PSA is now at 0.5, I have no regrets on my decision, but once I made it I felt relieved and just got on with it, cheers John
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Posted 20 Nov 2024 at 19:17

Hi jarweb,

You asked how people chose between Radiotherapy or Surgery.

I chose surgery over Radio Therapy/ Hormone Therapy because I didn't want the H.T. to interfere with my sex drive.  The Radiologist was not happy to give just the R.T. without the H.T., so surgery it was for me.

I have enduring urinary incontinence following the surgery (as well as Erectile Dysfunction) so, surgery has not been a walk in the park for me, but with Alprostadil injections I have been able to adapt to a (kind of) sex life. And I still enjoy a healthy sex drive.  

Horses for courses...

Best wishes in whatever you decide to do.

JedSee.

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Posted 20 Nov 2024 at 20:17

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Hi Ned

Thanks for your feedback.  That all sounds very positive but, unfortunately, I'm not sure many of the techniques or processes you mentioned are actually available to me (UK NHS).

I agree.

Ned was operated on in America. He appears to have had access to procedures that are very uncommon here. I've not heard from anyone on the NHS who've been fortunate enough to have margins checked mid prostatectomy. I've seen on TV, eminent UK surgeons, checking margins during other very serious and complex cancer operations, but not during prostate removal. 

Likewise, the single port, puboprostatic ligament, Retizus sparing prostatectomy maybe available here,  but I suspect only in specific hospitals. It was certainly not offered to me.

Ned also mentions that in America PSMA PET scans are standard after biopsy. It seems that here you often have to be have to virtually on deaths door to get one.

Perhaps, it shows that if you have the disease, America is the place to be?

I was just grateful, despite having to wait 6 months, to get the bog standard 'whip it out' op, in good old Blighty. 😁

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Posted 20 Nov 2024 at 20:58

Hi,

They do that in the UK in a small number of hospitals. I had it on the NHS back in 2019.

Neurosafe with frozen section during Radical Prostatectomy. 

Basically they have a (pathologist?) in the next room who performs a check on the prostate while you're still on the operating table.

I had a conversation with my surgeon a few months after surgery, there was a positive margin and he described how he used the robot to apply heat to burn the area before closing me up. The positive margin was documented in my post op histology. 

Cheers, 

Kev.

 

Edited by member 20 Nov 2024 at 21:01  | Reason: Typo

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Posted 20 Nov 2024 at 21:19

Cheers Kev. I've been here just over a year and had never heard of margin checking mid op or that it was an option here. Like a man in orthopedic shoes, I stand corrected.

It does beg the question, why hasn't it become a standard procedure?

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Posted 20 Nov 2024 at 21:33

Probably costs a bit and takes some organising too. My hospital was/is a centre of excellence for urology so I'm lucky to have it on my doorstep. I think there are a couple of places in London offering the same. I know of another member on here who went down the private route, think he got a nice room whereas I was on the ward overlooking St Evenage.

Cheers, 

Kev.

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Posted 22 Nov 2024 at 16:41

Hi

Had meeting with oncologist a couple of days ago.  Again, don't know if it's just an NHS or resource thing, but she said they still radiate the whole prostate rather than focal, with the potential side effects of that.  Don't know if focal is still fairly new so long term results not known ?  Or just most of the NHS is still a bit behind on techniques and technology.

Without outright recommending it, she said that they'd normally go for surgery for someone of my age and general health.    The cynic in me wonders if she just doesn't want additional work for the department.  :-)    Yes, I know it's ridiculous.

Still got a few weeks to wait for urology appointment so will see what that brings. 

Still hate the thought of having to choose.  If it was a heart condition etc where they said you could keel over at any point if you don't get this surgery then fine, choice made.  But having to choose between two different options and then later wondering if you made the right choice is terrible.

Anyway - another vent over.  Thanks for reading if you did.

Cheers

 

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Posted 22 Nov 2024 at 16:55

Hi John

I have put a few posts on here (Freddy) which you can take a look at but my determining factor was once you have RT you cannot have it again in the same place.

All the best in what you decide.

Freddy

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Posted 23 Nov 2024 at 13:42

Hi John,

I’m now 57, diagnosed June 23 with 3+3 Gleason, Med team advised AS, I was all for having it out. Ended up on AS by default due to timescales here in the West Midlands. At 12 months, my PSA was going down, still is, and 2nd MRI was more favourable than the first one. 2nd Biopsies were delayed 6 months on advice from Med team. Had 2nd biopsies 23 Oct, one core with 3+4 and one core with 4+3, Med team recommending removal, will take 2-3 months.

As others have said, if you have removal then other options are still available if cancer were to come back inc RT. If you have RT, removal may not be possible further down the line. 

Again as others have said, everyone is different. For me, my decision will not be based on side-effects, as much as yes would love to avoid them if poss. My top priority is to hopefully still be here for another 15, 20, 25 yrs and, for me, it seems removal gives that the best hope. 

There is no easy answer and sadly not enough long term study data (10-years or more surveys) to make the decision any easier. Keep checking online for all the info you can gather to help. Some good stuff on YouTube about different approaches to removal and trying to avoid side effects as much as possible. 

wishing you all the best

Jon

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Posted 23 Nov 2024 at 15:09

Hi Jon

Thanks for that.

Out of curiosity are you also being treated by the NHS ?  Did they actually say why they would recommend surgery rather than radiation ?   Just wondering if this is an NHS protocol because I was more or less told the same thing by the oncologist, who I would have thought would be all for recommending radiation.  She didn't outright say she'd recommend surgery but that they would normally opt for surgery with my age etc.

Cheers

   

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Posted 23 Nov 2024 at 17:42

Hi John,

Yes, at the moment I am in the NHS system in Worcestershire. My latest biopsy results meeting was with a locum consultant but I believe that all results and recommendations come from a meeting of the medical team that is headed by one of the main NHS urology consultant's covering the Worcestershire area. The main reason given for their removal recommendation was my age. He said that if I were 75 years old with say a 10-15 years life expectancy ahead of me, their recommendation might be different. He mentioned that radiation can lead to issues on a 10-year or so timescale with possible bowel cancer and if radiation were used now, that would not be an option for me if that were to arise in 10 years time when I would be 67 years old. Whether this is official NHS policy I cannot say but it does seem to accord with lots of views that you can find online.

Going back to my previous post (everyone is different...), another factor for my situation could be that, what is regarded as a slow growing cancer has gone from 3+3 Gleason to a mix of 3+4 and 4+3 Gleason in just 18 months from at 56 to 57. My PSA was 4.4 at the highest last year and was just 0.85 two months ago. Maybe the 2nd biopsy results are way ahead of the usual curve that they expect to see. I am due a consultation meeting with the lead consultant in February (!) when I would hope to find out more info if nothing changes before then.

Jon           

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Posted 11 Dec 2024 at 12:02

Hi

Met with urologist this morning.  Kind of as expected - went through surgery and risks etc.

In my head nothing has really changed apart from I now really need to make the decision of which option to go for.   Before today I was just putting it off because I knew I needed to meet the urologist first anyway.

I think I'm in the "just get it out" camp.  But, and it's a very big BUT,  the thought of the surgery itself really scares me.  Not the side effects etc, although that's bad enough.  The actual surgery and all the things that could potentially go wrong, however unlikely.

I also suffer from sleep apnoea so this adds risks to surgery - and so adds to my fears !!

As I've said before if it was surgery or nothing then fine - need to just do it.  I'm just finding it almost impossible to choose but I know I have to, and now very soon.   I wish doing nothing was an option but it's definitely not :-)

Cheers all

John

 

 

  

 

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Posted 11 Dec 2024 at 17:56

All surgeries have risks. I haven't heard of anyone die of prostatectomy; that is the good news. Recovery can be quite straight forward or difficult. Chances of incontinence nowadays are low, ED problem is under estimated; consultants tend to be over optimistic. I had surgery 13 years ago, suffer from very minor incontinence and permanent ED. We consider ourselves very lucky, enjoying our life in all its aspects.

If you go for surgery or any other options be confident and positive. Remember a lot of healing takes place in your brain. You are relatively young; I had my surgery at 72. Because you are young you have a good chance of recovering your sexual function, but in my opinion vast majority of men undergoing prostatectomies don't achieve 100% sexual function post surgery. 

Good luck - we all need that.

 'Physics is like sex: sure, it may give some practical results, but that’s not why we do it.'                    Richard Feynman (1918-1988) Nobel Prize laureate

 

 

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Posted 11 Dec 2024 at 18:52

Hi

I hadn't even thought about the implications of the sleep apnoea with surgery until today and now it's all I can think about.

I know I need to make a decision, and soon, and just stick to it.  But I'm really struggling.  I don't think you can speak to an anaesthetist until it's time for the surgery so I can't even get some kind of reassurance from that.

I might phone the specialist nurse again but she'll be getting fed up hearing from me !

Cheers

 

 

 

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Posted 11 Dec 2024 at 20:27

Hi John,

It is a pressurised time but keep in mind that many have gone before you and found a way through. I know that sort of advice can be unhelpful because we all have our own stress points (I am scared of heights, needles & spiders) but what I mean is, whatever you choose there is a way through it for you and once you have made your decision, whatever that may be, you will feel much better about it.

As coincidence would have it, I made my decision to go private and had RARP Retzus sparing procedure this afternoon. 

If you have confidence in the medical team looking after you, the stress of the decision process becomes much less. That has been my experience anyway.

Best wishes

Jon

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Posted 15 Dec 2024 at 19:02

Hi

I'm still struggling with this decision but feel I don't have any more time to decide now.

I think surgery is maybe the best option but I'm really scared of this.

I'm going from saying just go for the surgery to no I can't do it.  Do I have the risk of surgery right now or the risk of longer effects (other cancers) with radiation further down the line ?  

As I said,  doubt I've got any more time to decide but just getting my feelings out there again.

Cheers

 

 

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Posted 15 Dec 2024 at 20:30

Hi Jarweb, I know exactly what you mean but for me, although you know what the possible side effects could be it was a small price to pay. My brother had PC the year before I was diagnosed in July 2021.I had my op in the August of 2021 in Cambridge. Surgeon was brilliant and no inontinence. Unfortunately it has returned in 3 areas but is undetectable with the pills I take daily and hormone injection every 3 months. I was worried about it but just wanted it out and the surgeon said it was the best place to start. 
what is your Gleason PSA? Mine was Gleason 9 PSA 4.6
What made the decision easier was the fact that if you have Radiotherapy you cannot have it again in the same area.Hope this helps. I have put up posts (look for Freddy)

All the best in what you decide.

Freddy

 

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Posted 15 Dec 2024 at 20:55

Hi John,

I found stats about side effects intimidating because they can make you feel like almost guaranteed to get them. When you see (and this is just a figure out of the air, not real), 42% of men get ED beyond two years, that is a scary number but it means over half don’t.

Only time will tell whether the Retzius Sparing RALP that had last week will actually help avoid the side effects but already I am sleeping better at night (metaphorically and physically) knowing that, for now at least, the cancer is out. Having the cancer inside me getting more aggressive with the possibility it could have spread was more scary than the risk of the side effects. Having a high volume surgeon undoubtedly helps in that regard under the mantra of “Practice makes perfect” for most things in life.

I wish you well and whilst things may be scary now and I felt the same, sometimes the decision is the hardest bit. Once made, things will be easier. Hopefully.

Jon

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Posted 15 Dec 2024 at 21:55

Hi Jon

Thanks for your thoughts.

Although the side effects are potentially scary, it's the actual surgery itself that is worrying me just now - the risk of something going wrong etc and me not waking up.    I keep saying,  I wish there was no choice to make or at least that the choices weren't between surgery and not surgery.

I unfortunately won't have a choice of surgeon as I can't afford to go private.  Don't even know how far in advance I would be able to find out.

I'd told myself to take the weekend to try to clear my head and make a decision tomorrow.  Well, the weekend is nearly over and I'm back to square one.  But I really can't take any longer to decide.

Cheers

John

 

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Posted 16 Dec 2024 at 09:11

Hi John,

I’ve had 3 operations in my adult life, the first when I was 21 and I had the exact same worries. The second op I had was in January this year and the same worries surfaced again so I tried to use logic to calm them telling myself that many people go though the exact same operation each year and yet you don’t see things in the news about things going drastically wrong which you would do if the numbers were significant. The professionals carrying out the op do them day in day out and have everything geared up aimed at making sure you come through it. With my prostate op last week, I didn’t have those worries. The pre-theatre team were excellent and one of the nurses chatted with me the whole time before I fell asleep to keep me diverted and calm.

It might be worth having a chat with one of the Prostate Cancer UK team if you have not already done so. I found them really helpful. Their Specialist Nurses are on 0800 074 8383 or they do an online chat too. Details are on the main home page.

Best wishes

Jon

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Posted 16 Dec 2024 at 10:25

In my experience the NHS, especially its anaesthetists,  go to great lengths not to operate on anyone, if there's a risk they might not wake up.  

If they think you're a risky patient in that respect, they won't operate on you in the first place. 

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Posted 18 Dec 2024 at 21:24

Hi John,

Just reaching out. How are you getting on? Hope you are okay.

Best wishes,

Jon

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Posted 19 Dec 2024 at 15:32

Hi Jon

Thanks for checking in - very good of you.

I've asked to go on the surgery waiting list.  I've spent all week trying to get through to someone to get this confirmed but the, apparently only, person who could deal with it was off.  But it should be in progress now.

I spent the weekend supposedly clearing my head to make a decision but that really didn't work out.  But I couldn't leave it any longer so I'll just need to get over my fear of the surgery somehow.

Apart from the surgery, my worry now is that if it happens at the end of Jan or into Feb, that will be over 6 months from the initial tests.    I only saw a urologist last week so it's not as if I spent weeks or months deciding - it was just a couple of days as the weekend was in between.

Cheers

John

 

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Posted 19 Dec 2024 at 18:05

John,

Six months is not considered an issue from initial tests. Studies have shown that the same outcome is achieved if treatment is started 3 months or 6 months. Its really hard anyway to go from initial PSA concerns, another month for a recheck, on to a month to get MpMri, wait a week or two results, then maybe two weeks to a month for biopsy, then waiting time results, then maybe another two weeks + for a PSMA Pet, then results, then referrals to Radiation Oncologist’s and Surgical Oncologist’s for consultation then after deciding another four to six weeks for surgery. You certainly hear about someone doing all this in three months but boy all the stars had to line up. I was six months to my surgery. Good luck!

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Posted 19 Dec 2024 at 18:14

Hi John,

At least the decision has been made and hopefully that will bring you some relief. The rest to some extent is just mechanics but that doesn’t make things easier necessarily.

Just a heads up, you may get sent for a full body bone scan.

I had a letter through the post after my second biopsy results and it frightened the heck out of me because nobody had mentioned one during the results meeting. I have subsequently found out it is fairly routine but at the time I was convinced it must have meant the medical team thought the cancer must have spread. I got that all wrong and the bone scan came back normal.

Sounds like you would benefit from chatting with a specialist nurse at whichever hospital you will be treated at, if they have such a role set up there.

I am booked to have my catheter removed on 27th. Can’t come soon enough!

best wishes,

Jon

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Posted 19 Dec 2024 at 18:32

Thanks both

Jon - I've already had a bone scan which they said was clear at the time.  I assumed this was standard practice during diagnosis. Or maybe it depends on your PSA levels.  The one with the 3 hour wait for an injection to take effect before the scan.

Or do you mean you got another one pre-op ?

Thanks

John

 

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Posted 20 Dec 2024 at 09:02

Hi John,

I think you are right, a bone scan probably is standard practice and yes, the one where they put the dye in and you have to wait 3 hours. My health authority didn’t do one based on PSA as mine was down to 1.0 and then 0.85 but it seems the decision to do one was made once my grade went up from Gleason 6 to 7 and they recommended surgery. 

The shock for me and what caused increased anxiety that I feel could have been avoided, was that nobody mentioned a bone scan to me and why they were going to be doing one. I just got a letter through the post one day leaving me to draw my own, most likely incorrect, conclusions. Sounds like your medical team handled things better. 

It was just under 2 months from biopsy results to surgery for me and I had just the one bone scan.

Jon

 
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