Tony
Welcome to this forum. And really sorry to hear your diagnosis. You’re following 2 months on from my diagnosis - Gleason 8 with lymph nodes, lower spine and pelvis. And we’re the same age. It’s a bummer. Where in the bones are you? It’s been a roller coaster journey for me but as I say to people it is a challenge - and I relish a challenge. And it’s good to try new things - though not sure chemo was ever on the bucket list…. But at least I can say I’ve now got the chemo t-shirt!
Diagnosed on 13 August 2024. I started on Biacutamalite on 19 August 2024. Biopsy on 12 September. First Zoladex/Goserelin injection 18 September 2024. Chemo started 5 November. Second dose was 27 November (last week). I’m thinking all very routine.
We’re all different but if I can recount my experience
Sex
At the start this was also my biggest worry. Prior to this diagnosis my sexual appetite was - how can I say - very healthy. But arguably out of hand. Porn twice a day etc. At the start of this diagnosis the well publicised libido side affects of HT depressed me hugely. Then when I started on HT I wondered what all the fuss was about. But then it dawned that it takes 2-4 weeks for testosterone to drain from the body. And then the urge just went. Bang. Chemo has made it worse and now dry ejaculations - when I can be bothered to masturbate at all. No breast enlargement. The shrinkage is an issue - not as bad as I was warned and viagra assists - but to be honest I’m not missing it. If the mind doesn’t crave it I can live without it and deep down I’m wondering if this is a small penalty to pay. But it does affect everyone differently. I’ve read about one guy on this forum similar to me who was into cycling who (if my understanding is correct) underwent invasive surgery to allow him to pump the Crown Jewels up - but the surgery meant no more cycling which he was happy to accept. Not for me - staying fit is key. It is a cruel disease. But it’s a personal choice. And QOL is different for everyone.
Alcohol
My second vice was alcohol. I’m in the hospitality trade. Was regularly over a few decades consuming more than 40 uk units a week. Which had got worse post Covid. I’m told PC is not a lifestyle cancer and I would hope my drinking hasn’t contributed. Who knows. My lovely oncologist (he asked me one or two loaded questions last week which makes me thinks he reads these posts!) has now told me to cut back on my drinking for the next 3 months (and probably for ever?!) to give my liver the best chance of coping with this Docetaxal - I guess that makes sense. If the liver can’t cope I guess the treatment options are much reduced. And my drinking is cut right back. Which is something I’ve been trying to achieve in years. So I guess thank you cancer (!!). But all my vices being removed one by one. It ain’t fair. I need to now concentrate on other activities!
Chemo
Just had my second dose last week. So far so good. PSA down from 9.1 to 0.2 in 4 months. In fairness the first dose wasn’t bad at all and no nasty side effects. Hot flushes, hair loss started last weekend (wig purchase last week!!), taste loss for a 10 days or so, mild joint ache and a week of running to the bathroom as bad as it got. I was told first dose is c 80% strength. So may be second time it’ll be worse but woken up this morning 5 days in and feeling fine. I look at it that 35 years of pumping alcohol down my throat has made me immune to poison. I also keep fairly fit - I walk 10,000 steps a day and regularly cycle. I do think that helps.
My oncologist hasn’t said anything about RT but I’m sure it’s looming.
Diet
On diet I am told with PC that sugar is not so much of an issue. Reputedly PC gets its kicks from red meat /animal fat so that’s another pleasure gone. And I’m told a “Mediterranean diet” and lots of fruit and veg is essential. No hardship there. Are you finding the Kato diet good?
Apart from this web site (which I’ve found really good) there’s a YouTube channel featuring a doctor called Dr Mark Scholz. I sometimes wonder if he’s a snake oil salesman he is always so upbeat! But I’ve found what he has said extremely informative.
Enough for now. Stay positive. Keep it up and stay in touch! I also intend to also have a few thousand more sunrises.
Anthony