I know it a worrying time, everyone is different , I understand that you are worrying about it being PC but if it is the quicker he starts treatment the better.
Im 62 ,i had a psa of 30.4, found by accident and had a mri, ct and bone scan before the the consultant saw me, but from there on things moved fast, within 2 weeks I was on tablets, having had a biopsy, 2 weeks after that hormone injections and this week I have an appointment for a second ct scan and hopefully start radiotherapy just after Xmas,
My whole journey has taken 4 months but thanks to this site I'm mentally in a good a place. I have seen 3 consultants now In total and all have said that (a) it's treatable (b) it's not terminal .
Yes it's a pain but start thinking about, options having the prostrate out and or other options .
This was my hardest decision, I didn't really understand the options, i thought an ethics committee would rlue and make the decision for me but no it came down to personal choice, but I think basically,
1. Prostrate out...no issues but side effects . Incontinence , ed ,
2. prostrate out, but might have spread, so a course of radiotherapy to make sure, same side effects
3. Hormone therapy, radiotherapy, side effects, Ed, insomnia ( whilst on ht) NO INCONTINENCE. Lose stools whilst on 20 day treatment of radiotherapy
I went for the latter, didn't want to risk Incontinence, also with a high psa although not detected there is a small chance of spread so radiotherapy would have been used either way.
But remember every one is different and local health authorities are different in what's on offer. Etc. I'm in Birmingham the consultant said whip it out 4 weeks max private 30k or free nhs 6 weeks. The NHS have been brilliant, poor communication, but great service, really caring and sensitive.
Hope this helps feel like I've been rambling, but I'm sure it will get sorted.