Hi Steve.
Sorry to see that you've had to join the Club but welcome mate.
Whether to have radiotherapy or surgery is probably the most asked question on here.
There is no definitive answer. When you compare the recovery of thousands of patients, there is very little difference between either treatment. Whichever treatment you have you'll be lucky to escape with some sort of side effects which include incontinence or erectile dysfunction.
The problem is, individual outcomes can vary enormously. Some sail through either treatment with only slight side effects. Others struggle enormously with each treatment and have big long-lasting side effects.
I had surgery. This link outlines my recovery.
https://community.prostatecanceruk.org/posts/t30214-Almost-a-year-on-after-RARP
Like you, I almost have a phobia, about hospitals. They offered me 7 weeks of radiotherapy, 35 visits, which I'd have struggled with. I decided a one night hospital stay for surgery was less disruptive to me. However, it appears that now, they are reducing radiotherapy to just five visits. Had this been available to me, I may have chosen it.
Best of luck, mate, with whichever you choose.
Edited by member 14 Dec 2024 at 12:59
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