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Posted 21 Dec 2024 at 14:52

Hi Folks,

I’m in the process of getting checked out for PCa. I’m 57 having some minor waterworks issues and got a PSA test result of 5.7. That test triggered an MRI scan and they’ve spotted a small lesion (1cm) which has been given an MPIRS score of 4. Getting a biopsy in the new year. I’m taking things step by step. Finding this forum very helpful in knowing I’m not alone and that it’s still early days. Would be grateful for any advice. Have a great Christmas and New Year.

Cheers

Callanish

 

User
Posted 21 Dec 2024 at 18:54

Sounds like you are doing it right step by step. Be sure your biopsy will be MRI fusion guided to get extra bites from the lesion. Keep us posted with your detailed biopsy pathology for best comments from members. Biopsy is fairly straightforward and painless.

User
Posted 21 Dec 2024 at 19:23

Hi, 

Sounds like you are taking things sensibly.

I have just been discharged from urology after my biopsy came back clear. Similar story to yours so there is a great chance you will have nothing to worry about after the biopsy.

Have a restful worry free Christmas and only worry when there is something to worry about 

All the very best,

Mick 

User
Posted 21 Dec 2024 at 19:24

Hi Callanish.

I'm sorry that you've had to join us but welcome to the forum, mate.

The PI-RAD 4 means that it seems likely the lesion is cancerous, however, only a biopsy will confirm or negate that. We have had cases where PI-RAD 4 and 5's have turned out to be inflammation or benign lesions.

Do you know whether your prostate is enlarged, because that itself can elevate your PSA, as can other non cancerous prostate conditions.

Best of luck with your biopsy results. Please keep us updated.👍

 

User
Posted 09 Feb 2025 at 16:32

When you talk with the surgeon, questions I would ask are:

How likely is the surgery to be nerve sparing, i.e. to preserve erections? (That depends where the cancer is.)

How good is your urinary continence likely to be? (Some aspects of your anatomy, and the cancer, and the way the operation is performed can influence this.)

How many lymph nodes might be removed? (The more which are removed, the higher risk of lymphodema.)

What are the chances of a cure first time, versus having to have more treatment afterwards? (The chances of needing more treatment increase with the level of risk associated with the diagnosis.)

If you don't like any of the answers, that could be a cause to look at other treatments or surgeons.

Edited by member 09 Feb 2025 at 16:33  | Reason: Not specified

User
Posted 09 Feb 2025 at 18:16

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
What are the chances of a cure first time, versus having to have more treatment afterwards? (The chances of needing more treatment increase with the level of risk associated with the diagnosis.)

Is that the same as asking him/her what are chances of recurrence?

I would be asking him/her how good he/she is. How much experience they have and their success rate. All the questions that you could once find answers for through BAUS, but that are now apparently no longer openly available.

User
Posted 11 Feb 2025 at 21:59

 

Hi Callanish.

Sorry to hear your diagnosis.

This time last year I had PSA 6.7. Pi-RAD 5. Biopsy 3+4. I was and am a runner. I opted for surgery, which I had in May 2024. I walked a mile the day after surgery (with catheter in) and continued walking every day, extending distance steadily. I was running again a few weeks later. I leaked badly from the start, but at 3 months things were a lot better. At around 4 months stress incontinence, all but gone. Pathology worse after surgery T3a, rather than estimated T2 - this happens quite a bit, apparently. Negative margins - crucial. Nodes not removed. Having regular PSA tests - so far undetectable.

My running is back to what it was before surgery, albeit marginally slower as I'm a year or so older now. I'm 66.

So a young, fit person with a good surgeon (crucial) and with dedication and a positive mindset can get through this. Your stats seem to be better than mine.

A contact of mine has metastasised PCa. Chemo, hormones the works. In his bones, sadly. He's now back to running marathons.

Take your time. Get your head in a positive mind set. Ignore Dr Google as much of the material is out of date as PCa treatments are moving fast - this I think is important. I got involved in a hospital patient forum after surgery and this point was made and acknowledged by the staff. If you choose surgery, be prepared for significant incontinence (most), but it gets way better for nearly everyone with dedication.

Good luck

Edited by member 11 Feb 2025 at 22:00  | Reason: Not specified

User
Posted 11 Feb 2025 at 22:30
Hello Callanish

Sorry to hear about your diagnosis.

I’m 55 yrs old, was diagnosed with PCa in October 2024, 3+4 T2c, 12 cores positive out of 25, so similar to yourself. I had a RARP at the end of Nov.

Here is a link that goes through my journey in quite a lot of detail, I hope it can help you a little, and please let me know if you have any questions and I’ll try and help.

https://community.prostatecanceruk.org/posts/t31069-a-new-diagnosis

There are some brilliant people in this forum that certainly helped me a lot, particularly in the more challenging moments,

Best of luck with it all.

Gus

User
Posted 23 Feb 2025 at 18:28

Surgery. First choice. Second choice ... surgery.  If you've been offered surgery, the medics have assessed you as suitably fit, so at 57 I'd go for surgery ...

There is the reassurance that after surgery you'll have an accurate histology/pathology which will tell you exactly what you had. MRIs are getting better, but as many folk here will testify, they are by no means perfect. It's helpful to know whether the 3:4 is indeed 3:4 etc. 

Try and ensure your surgeon has completed (successfully) a sufficient number of the procedures and is doing them regularly, this is critical as the best surgeons will likely give you a better chance of not leaving microscopic cells around and saving your nerves.

Surgery is a not to be taken likely. Take care with getting yourself in the best possible condition. Start your Kegels yesterday (:-)) and keep going with them properly every day - for life. Expect that you will have to re-learn bladder control afterwards - it can take some time, though some folk are lucky and sail through this part. 

So my recommendation is ...

Good luck

 

 

 

User
Posted 29 May 2025 at 07:20

Hi Callanish.

I'm very glad to hear your operation went well, mate, and that you're making a good recovery. Long may it continue.

I had RARP over two years ago. Gleason upgraded from 8  (3+5) to 9 (4+5), T3a with extraprostatic extension, negative margins. My first post op PSA was undetectable and has remained that way ever since.

Good luck mate. 👍

User
Posted 29 May 2025 at 15:32

Hi Cavendish, that sounds like you're on a good path. This upgrade (downgrade??) seems all too familiar. I do wonder if the NHS underplays intermediate diagnoses as their argument might be that PCa is slow spreading and resources are limited so lets down play it a little. Less worry for the patient. However, I saw my scan and quizzed the doctor as even I could seem the boundary bulging. I was reassured (not). I went private (painful raiding of savings). The private consultant agreed with me that it was likely T3, rather than all contained. I had surgery two weeks later.

Pleased you got the important negative margins and you seem to be making excellent progress with your plumbing.

It's a year tomorrow from when I had surgery. Where did it go? Try not to let your regular PSA tests dominate your thinking. Hard at first, but it does get easier each time they come back undetectable. Hopefully you'll be able to post regular undetectable results for years to come. It's helpful for others to keep posting results, I think, especially for the locally advanced of us because if things are going well most folk move on and nobody reads the good stories.

Fingers crossed for you.

User
Posted 29 May 2025 at 17:59

Whoops, sorry about the aberration with your name, Callanish.

I was being diagnosed closer to the Covid backlog and during the doctors strike. I didn't get to see an NHS consultant, instead only a nurse specialist (by phone) and a registrar. A consultant appointment was promised, but as all targets were being missed by months - January initial PSA to mid May before I received biopsy results - I jumped out of NHS care. I was to be put on a consultant waiting list to discuss my options after the biopsy. Who knows when I would have eventually have had NHS surgery. I felt I was being managed while I was waiting and waiting. My GP put me on a 28 day fast path. Post code lottery would, no doubt, have been playing its part.

That's all behind my now...

User
Posted 03 Aug 2025 at 09:22

Hi Callanish.

Thanks for your update.

It's fabulous news that your first post op PSA is undetectable. Long may it continue. 

You are making a speedy recovery, especially on the incontinence front.

Please keep updating us. It's very helpful to others going through the same process.

 

User
Posted 03 Aug 2025 at 10:00

Hi Callanish

That's great news. Hopefully the histology/pathology didn't differ (worsen) from your initial diagnosis. You're now into your recovery, which with dedication and care, will allow you to recover most of your modified plumbing, etc. One bit of advice would be to try hard to get that crucial balance between exercising both body and pelvic floor and allowing time to recover. It's taken me around 12 months to fully understand how things have changed in subtle ways. I thought I understood more than I did when my body was telling me something else. I think you will probably know what I mean in a few months time. Not everybody responds the same to a fixed exercise program. We are all so different. 

Good luck ...

 

User
Posted 03 Aug 2025 at 13:06

Seems to be happening all too often in the NHS. This is exactly what happened to me. I assume you had negative margins?

So we both have the long waiting for years, sadly, hoping to get regular "undetectable" results. After the shock of my T3a I decided to reduce my, already limited, alcohol to zero (or as near as). Similar I consume red meat and UPFs infrequently - I never had much before, but now I'm even more observant. I've run for decades and that will be maintained for as long as I can. I'm 14 months post-op and have convinced myself, most days anyway!, that PCa is in my past - reality may decide a different outcome, but I'm doing what I can, without getting obsessive about it.

My surgeon said, he believed he'd removed all my prostate and adjacent infected cells, and the negative margins helped to confirm that. He then added that there was little difference at this point in outcomes between T2 and T3a as the surgeons' skills in removing the gland and nerves etc, are key in whether or not any risky tissue was left behind.  I trust him, which helped me a lot post surgery as I came to terms with what lay ahead of me.

You're unlikely to be able to shut out the period just before each test, but hopefully, after each good result you'll go for weeks where it drops out of your head as you work through your plumbing ups and downs, and get on with life.

If you can keep adding to your profile as tests come and go, it will allow those whose histology have been upgraded to T3a, which does feel so much worse.

Fingers crossed ...

User
Posted 03 Aug 2025 at 13:31

Callanish,  great news on your successful operation and the PSA test being positive.

In your position I would have opted for surgery too, as you said the MRI showed one thing, the biopsy another and the actual organ showed a worse picture than both.

I am concerned that my own biopsy could have missed any cancer cells as they only took the bare minimum of three cores from two areas of concern on the MRI. 

I know it's easy to scare yourself to death on this journey but there seems to be plenty of evidence that the scans and biopsies are not the gold standard of diagnosis we are led to believe. 

At least I'm on my guard now and not ignorant of my prostate.

Wishing you well for your future recovery mate,

Mick 

 

User
Posted 03 Aug 2025 at 14:10

Thank you! I had a 21 core needle biopsy and 9 contained cancer. Just as much cancer was found in the non targeted area compared to the targeted lesion. The surgeon suspects that it didn’t all show up on the MRI because the cancer was occurring patchily throughout the prostate and not always in lesions. One of the advantages of having the prostate removed is that the histology tells you what the real situation actually was and in my case things were a bit worse than the imaging and biopsy suggested. I’m feeling positive about life and glad I went down the surgery route. Even if my leaks don’t improve much I can live with the side effects I have.

User
Posted 04 Aug 2025 at 15:57

Just saw your post Gus. Re the frequency. I'm now 14 months post op and I reported to my consultant at 6 months that my frequency was greater than before my op. At that stage I was experimenting with my maintenance pelvic floor exercises. He said it shouldn't be worse. We concluded that my maintenance regime (twice a day exercises were too many). I switched to a gentler, once a day at bedtime. Over the next few weeks the frequency control improved. I believe that the regular exercises were both too vigorous and too frequent, and were leaving my pelvic floor too sensitive/strained. Just a thought ...

User
Posted 04 Aug 2025 at 16:41

Thanks Barry

I haven’t been doing any pelvic floor exercises since the op. I have been reasonably lucky (well as much as any us PCa people can be!)  I guess as from the day I had the catheter out I didn’t have major leaking issues, just the odd bit here and there. It used to happen when I played golf, literally just walking down the fairway, or sometimes just randomly if I moved suddenly from sitting. That has practically stopped completely now, but I have noticed the increased frequency when having a beer. I don’t really drink that often tbh, I was tea total for about 6 months after the diagnosis and post op. I didn’t feel any better for not having the odd drink, and enjoyed it socially, maybe it’s a sign I’m trying to unconsciously ‘return to normal’. I have had two occasions recently when I went out and behaved very much like I did pre surgery/PCa diagnosis and noticed a distinct difference. Strangely I now often go through the night without getting up to go to the loo, which I did every night pre op. I think I will start some gentle PF exercises and not go too mad as you have suggested, see if that helps. Sounds like good advice.

Many thanks

Gus

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User
Posted 21 Dec 2024 at 18:54

Sounds like you are doing it right step by step. Be sure your biopsy will be MRI fusion guided to get extra bites from the lesion. Keep us posted with your detailed biopsy pathology for best comments from members. Biopsy is fairly straightforward and painless.

User
Posted 21 Dec 2024 at 19:23

Hi, 

Sounds like you are taking things sensibly.

I have just been discharged from urology after my biopsy came back clear. Similar story to yours so there is a great chance you will have nothing to worry about after the biopsy.

Have a restful worry free Christmas and only worry when there is something to worry about 

All the very best,

Mick 

User
Posted 21 Dec 2024 at 19:24

Hi Callanish.

I'm sorry that you've had to join us but welcome to the forum, mate.

The PI-RAD 4 means that it seems likely the lesion is cancerous, however, only a biopsy will confirm or negate that. We have had cases where PI-RAD 4 and 5's have turned out to be inflammation or benign lesions.

Do you know whether your prostate is enlarged, because that itself can elevate your PSA, as can other non cancerous prostate conditions.

Best of luck with your biopsy results. Please keep us updated.👍

 

User
Posted 09 Feb 2025 at 15:02

OK so update: after TP biopsy PC is unfortunately confirmed. PC found in 10 of 21 cores, Gleason 7 (3+4), PC on both sides of prostate but importantly it has not spread outside of the prostate. Not the start to the New Year I had envisaged. Has been an emotional rollercoaster the last week since diagnosis. Looking into treatment options now. As I’m young -57- and fit will probably opt for surgery, but would like some views and don’t need to rush things. 

User
Posted 09 Feb 2025 at 16:32

When you talk with the surgeon, questions I would ask are:

How likely is the surgery to be nerve sparing, i.e. to preserve erections? (That depends where the cancer is.)

How good is your urinary continence likely to be? (Some aspects of your anatomy, and the cancer, and the way the operation is performed can influence this.)

How many lymph nodes might be removed? (The more which are removed, the higher risk of lymphodema.)

What are the chances of a cure first time, versus having to have more treatment afterwards? (The chances of needing more treatment increase with the level of risk associated with the diagnosis.)

If you don't like any of the answers, that could be a cause to look at other treatments or surgeons.

Edited by member 09 Feb 2025 at 16:33  | Reason: Not specified

User
Posted 09 Feb 2025 at 18:16

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
What are the chances of a cure first time, versus having to have more treatment afterwards? (The chances of needing more treatment increase with the level of risk associated with the diagnosis.)

Is that the same as asking him/her what are chances of recurrence?

I would be asking him/her how good he/she is. How much experience they have and their success rate. All the questions that you could once find answers for through BAUS, but that are now apparently no longer openly available.

User
Posted 11 Feb 2025 at 21:59

 

Hi Callanish.

Sorry to hear your diagnosis.

This time last year I had PSA 6.7. Pi-RAD 5. Biopsy 3+4. I was and am a runner. I opted for surgery, which I had in May 2024. I walked a mile the day after surgery (with catheter in) and continued walking every day, extending distance steadily. I was running again a few weeks later. I leaked badly from the start, but at 3 months things were a lot better. At around 4 months stress incontinence, all but gone. Pathology worse after surgery T3a, rather than estimated T2 - this happens quite a bit, apparently. Negative margins - crucial. Nodes not removed. Having regular PSA tests - so far undetectable.

My running is back to what it was before surgery, albeit marginally slower as I'm a year or so older now. I'm 66.

So a young, fit person with a good surgeon (crucial) and with dedication and a positive mindset can get through this. Your stats seem to be better than mine.

A contact of mine has metastasised PCa. Chemo, hormones the works. In his bones, sadly. He's now back to running marathons.

Take your time. Get your head in a positive mind set. Ignore Dr Google as much of the material is out of date as PCa treatments are moving fast - this I think is important. I got involved in a hospital patient forum after surgery and this point was made and acknowledged by the staff. If you choose surgery, be prepared for significant incontinence (most), but it gets way better for nearly everyone with dedication.

Good luck

Edited by member 11 Feb 2025 at 22:00  | Reason: Not specified

User
Posted 11 Feb 2025 at 22:30
Hello Callanish

Sorry to hear about your diagnosis.

I’m 55 yrs old, was diagnosed with PCa in October 2024, 3+4 T2c, 12 cores positive out of 25, so similar to yourself. I had a RARP at the end of Nov.

Here is a link that goes through my journey in quite a lot of detail, I hope it can help you a little, and please let me know if you have any questions and I’ll try and help.

https://community.prostatecanceruk.org/posts/t31069-a-new-diagnosis

There are some brilliant people in this forum that certainly helped me a lot, particularly in the more challenging moments,

Best of luck with it all.

Gus

User
Posted 12 Feb 2025 at 08:31

Thanks Gus, your thread is very informative! I’ve got an appointment with oncologist next week to discuss radiotherapy, brachytherapy etc so will see how I get on with that. It’s confusing all the options and as I’m youngish I’m hoping for more guidance from the doctors on the longer term outcomes of the different procedures - ie for someone in my position which pathway gives greater likelihood of a ‘cure’ and what side effects are likely. 

Edited by member 12 Feb 2025 at 08:36  | Reason: Not specified

User
Posted 23 Feb 2025 at 15:46

Meet with the oncologist and have been offered choice of radiotherapy or radical prostatectomy, both of which have the same chances of success of providing a ‘lifetime cure’.  PC is localised and at early stages and Gleason 7(3+4), PC on both sides of prostate. As I’m ‘young’ 57 (!) I’m thinking about surgery as I’m told it will be nerve sparing and I prefer to just get rid of the cancer and then reserve radiotherapy or chemotherapy in case there’s a recurrence later in life. I also understand that surgery after radiotherapy can be difficult due to scar tissue, so there’s more risk of side effects. It’s tough waying up these options, but I’m grateful I have been diagnosed early and have options…Would be grateful of any opinions or experiences from this wonderful supportive community. 

User
Posted 23 Feb 2025 at 18:28

Surgery. First choice. Second choice ... surgery.  If you've been offered surgery, the medics have assessed you as suitably fit, so at 57 I'd go for surgery ...

There is the reassurance that after surgery you'll have an accurate histology/pathology which will tell you exactly what you had. MRIs are getting better, but as many folk here will testify, they are by no means perfect. It's helpful to know whether the 3:4 is indeed 3:4 etc. 

Try and ensure your surgeon has completed (successfully) a sufficient number of the procedures and is doing them regularly, this is critical as the best surgeons will likely give you a better chance of not leaving microscopic cells around and saving your nerves.

Surgery is a not to be taken likely. Take care with getting yourself in the best possible condition. Start your Kegels yesterday (:-)) and keep going with them properly every day - for life. Expect that you will have to re-learn bladder control afterwards - it can take some time, though some folk are lucky and sail through this part. 

So my recommendation is ...

Good luck

 

 

 

User
Posted 23 Feb 2025 at 19:42

Thank you! Yeah the MRI only showed a 0.8cm  lesion in one side of the prostate but biopsy showed PC is actually more widespread but not showing up on the MRI. That gets me wondering what might be seen when histology is done on the whole prostate if removed - I see from reading in the forum that things regularly turn out to be higher grade than biopsy is showing, as the cores can’t sample everywhere and may miss things. I’m sure surgery will be tough but given my ‘young’ age I’m thinking a more conservative treatment might be prudent . Surgeon is very experienced and will be using the latest robot assisted kit, but I need to ask him about his stats. 

User
Posted 29 May 2025 at 06:19

Hi there, thanks for your reply. I had surgery earlier this month (nerve sparing both sides with the new single port robot assisted kit) My recovery is going well, leaks have been not too bad and I can control them most of the time. Like you my cancer was upgraded after surgery from 2c before to 3a afterwards. That was a surprise. Also Gleason changed from 7(3+4) to 7(4+3). Surgeon thinks he got all the tumour out (negative margins) but of course we can’t be certain. So now it’s a case of regular PSA checks going forward. I’m staying positive, focussed on my recovery and getting my fitness back. Hope you are doing well. Best Wishes, Callanish. 

User
Posted 29 May 2025 at 07:20

Hi Callanish.

I'm very glad to hear your operation went well, mate, and that you're making a good recovery. Long may it continue.

I had RARP over two years ago. Gleason upgraded from 8  (3+5) to 9 (4+5), T3a with extraprostatic extension, negative margins. My first post op PSA was undetectable and has remained that way ever since.

Good luck mate. 👍

User
Posted 29 May 2025 at 15:32

Hi Cavendish, that sounds like you're on a good path. This upgrade (downgrade??) seems all too familiar. I do wonder if the NHS underplays intermediate diagnoses as their argument might be that PCa is slow spreading and resources are limited so lets down play it a little. Less worry for the patient. However, I saw my scan and quizzed the doctor as even I could seem the boundary bulging. I was reassured (not). I went private (painful raiding of savings). The private consultant agreed with me that it was likely T3, rather than all contained. I had surgery two weeks later.

Pleased you got the important negative margins and you seem to be making excellent progress with your plumbing.

It's a year tomorrow from when I had surgery. Where did it go? Try not to let your regular PSA tests dominate your thinking. Hard at first, but it does get easier each time they come back undetectable. Hopefully you'll be able to post regular undetectable results for years to come. It's helpful for others to keep posting results, I think, especially for the locally advanced of us because if things are going well most folk move on and nobody reads the good stories.

Fingers crossed for you.

User
Posted 29 May 2025 at 16:39

Thanks mate. I don't think surgeon was downplaying anything as he suggested surgery or radiotherapy from the outset. My MRI scan showed a small lesion close to the edge of the prostate on one side but the biopsy showed the cancer was more widespread in both lobes, but it was not detectable on the MRI. Surgeon has been surprised throughout, both at the biopsy results and what he saw during surgery. Even with the most advanced tech and an experienced surgeon who has done 1000s of  prostatectomies it seems there are still going to be unexpected findings. I’m feeling positive at the moment and will update with my PSA results in a couple of months which hopefully will be undetectable. Cheers, Callanish

User
Posted 29 May 2025 at 17:59

Whoops, sorry about the aberration with your name, Callanish.

I was being diagnosed closer to the Covid backlog and during the doctors strike. I didn't get to see an NHS consultant, instead only a nurse specialist (by phone) and a registrar. A consultant appointment was promised, but as all targets were being missed by months - January initial PSA to mid May before I received biopsy results - I jumped out of NHS care. I was to be put on a consultant waiting list to discuss my options after the biopsy. Who knows when I would have eventually have had NHS surgery. I felt I was being managed while I was waiting and waiting. My GP put me on a 28 day fast path. Post code lottery would, no doubt, have been playing its part.

That's all behind my now...

User
Posted 03 Aug 2025 at 08:28

Had my first PSA test post-op and pleased to say my PSA levels are undetectable, which is great news. I will have PSA tests every 3 months for the next 2 years. Still have some minor leaks, for which I wear a pad,  and ED but hopefully these will get better with time. Doing my pelvic floor exercises to help with leaks and tadalafil and pump for the ED. 

User
Posted 03 Aug 2025 at 09:22

Hi Callanish.

Thanks for your update.

It's fabulous news that your first post op PSA is undetectable. Long may it continue. 

You are making a speedy recovery, especially on the incontinence front.

Please keep updating us. It's very helpful to others going through the same process.

 

User
Posted 03 Aug 2025 at 10:00

Hi Callanish

That's great news. Hopefully the histology/pathology didn't differ (worsen) from your initial diagnosis. You're now into your recovery, which with dedication and care, will allow you to recover most of your modified plumbing, etc. One bit of advice would be to try hard to get that crucial balance between exercising both body and pelvic floor and allowing time to recover. It's taken me around 12 months to fully understand how things have changed in subtle ways. I thought I understood more than I did when my body was telling me something else. I think you will probably know what I mean in a few months time. Not everybody responds the same to a fixed exercise program. We are all so different. 

Good luck ...

 

User
Posted 03 Aug 2025 at 10:29

There was one nasty shock as when the surgeon was operating he could see the cancer had gone beyond the capsule, so he had to cut around it. Once histology came in then my cancer was subsequently ‘upgraded’ from Stage 2c to stage 3a. That was a bit of a blow. Gleason also changed slightly from 7(3+4) to 7(4+3). However this has just confirmed my decision to get the bloody thing removed as soon as possible. On the recovery front I’m happy where I am, just taking it steadily, improvement seems slow but I’m lucky I didn’t have bad leaks from the beginning after the catheter was removed. The pad is easy to manage and I don’t think about it much.  I do seem to have a lot of physio exercises to do plus the PFEs and the pump etc! All seems to take a lot of time. To be honest not sure the PFEs are doing that much, although I understand the science suggests they help with both leaks and ED. 

User
Posted 03 Aug 2025 at 13:06

Seems to be happening all too often in the NHS. This is exactly what happened to me. I assume you had negative margins?

So we both have the long waiting for years, sadly, hoping to get regular "undetectable" results. After the shock of my T3a I decided to reduce my, already limited, alcohol to zero (or as near as). Similar I consume red meat and UPFs infrequently - I never had much before, but now I'm even more observant. I've run for decades and that will be maintained for as long as I can. I'm 14 months post-op and have convinced myself, most days anyway!, that PCa is in my past - reality may decide a different outcome, but I'm doing what I can, without getting obsessive about it.

My surgeon said, he believed he'd removed all my prostate and adjacent infected cells, and the negative margins helped to confirm that. He then added that there was little difference at this point in outcomes between T2 and T3a as the surgeons' skills in removing the gland and nerves etc, are key in whether or not any risky tissue was left behind.  I trust him, which helped me a lot post surgery as I came to terms with what lay ahead of me.

You're unlikely to be able to shut out the period just before each test, but hopefully, after each good result you'll go for weeks where it drops out of your head as you work through your plumbing ups and downs, and get on with life.

If you can keep adding to your profile as tests come and go, it will allow those whose histology have been upgraded to T3a, which does feel so much worse.

Fingers crossed ...

User
Posted 03 Aug 2025 at 13:31

Callanish,  great news on your successful operation and the PSA test being positive.

In your position I would have opted for surgery too, as you said the MRI showed one thing, the biopsy another and the actual organ showed a worse picture than both.

I am concerned that my own biopsy could have missed any cancer cells as they only took the bare minimum of three cores from two areas of concern on the MRI. 

I know it's easy to scare yourself to death on this journey but there seems to be plenty of evidence that the scans and biopsies are not the gold standard of diagnosis we are led to believe. 

At least I'm on my guard now and not ignorant of my prostate.

Wishing you well for your future recovery mate,

Mick 

 

User
Posted 03 Aug 2025 at 14:03

Thanks mate! Yes it’s a waiting game but I guess that’s the case with most folks with PCa and nobody was ever going to tell me that I’m ‘cured’. I had negative margins, so with the undetectable levels of PSA in my first test the surgeon is feeling optimistic of a good outcome in the long term. He’s a very skilled and experienced surgeon who has done 1000s of prostatectomies so I do trust him. He did warn me that statistically speaking, as I’m stage 3 the risk of recurrence is higher than for 2, but that I should stay positive. 

User
Posted 03 Aug 2025 at 14:10

Thank you! I had a 21 core needle biopsy and 9 contained cancer. Just as much cancer was found in the non targeted area compared to the targeted lesion. The surgeon suspects that it didn’t all show up on the MRI because the cancer was occurring patchily throughout the prostate and not always in lesions. One of the advantages of having the prostate removed is that the histology tells you what the real situation actually was and in my case things were a bit worse than the imaging and biopsy suggested. I’m feeling positive about life and glad I went down the surgery route. Even if my leaks don’t improve much I can live with the side effects I have.

User
Posted 04 Aug 2025 at 14:56

Thats great news Callanish re the first PSA, it cannot get any better than undetectable! I’m sure the continence will continue to improve as your body adapts and heals too.
I'm now 8 months post-surgery, and my experiences were/are very similar to yours. I’ve found that the continence has continued to improve, though I’m unsure if it will ever be 100%. I have found that its more of an issue when I have a drink, with the need to go to the loo a lot more frequently than I used to, I guess this is something you have to just get on with. I actually went out dancing and drinking the other night (I'm way too old really but a mate of ours was DJ'ing so a lot of us went). I’m glad I stuck a pad in as the two together did mean I seemed to spend as much time in the loo as I did on the dance floor! :)
I have my 3rd post op PSA in a few weeks, and yes as others have said Its very hard not to think about it. Had some great advice in here though, the best one was to actually accept worrying makes no difference to the outcome, just makes you more miserable/anxious. I try to think like that, though I think we wouldn't be human without a little worry. 
Good luck with the continued recovery.
Take care
Gus 

 

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Posted 04 Aug 2025 at 15:37

Thanks Gus, always good to hear from others about their experiences. Fingers crossed my leaks get better, they are really quite manageable already after 3 months post op except when I have too much alcohol or coffee. Good luck to you with your continued recovery 

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Posted 04 Aug 2025 at 15:57

Just saw your post Gus. Re the frequency. I'm now 14 months post op and I reported to my consultant at 6 months that my frequency was greater than before my op. At that stage I was experimenting with my maintenance pelvic floor exercises. He said it shouldn't be worse. We concluded that my maintenance regime (twice a day exercises were too many). I switched to a gentler, once a day at bedtime. Over the next few weeks the frequency control improved. I believe that the regular exercises were both too vigorous and too frequent, and were leaving my pelvic floor too sensitive/strained. Just a thought ...

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Posted 04 Aug 2025 at 16:41

Thanks Barry

I haven’t been doing any pelvic floor exercises since the op. I have been reasonably lucky (well as much as any us PCa people can be!)  I guess as from the day I had the catheter out I didn’t have major leaking issues, just the odd bit here and there. It used to happen when I played golf, literally just walking down the fairway, or sometimes just randomly if I moved suddenly from sitting. That has practically stopped completely now, but I have noticed the increased frequency when having a beer. I don’t really drink that often tbh, I was tea total for about 6 months after the diagnosis and post op. I didn’t feel any better for not having the odd drink, and enjoyed it socially, maybe it’s a sign I’m trying to unconsciously ‘return to normal’. I have had two occasions recently when I went out and behaved very much like I did pre surgery/PCa diagnosis and noticed a distinct difference. Strangely I now often go through the night without getting up to go to the loo, which I did every night pre op. I think I will start some gentle PF exercises and not go too mad as you have suggested, see if that helps. Sounds like good advice.

Many thanks

Gus

 
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