Thanks Adrian for your reply, and sorry to be slow in acknowledging it. Thanks also for the London Cancer Alliance video - I shared it with my dad (not sure he's looked at it yet, though!)
We've got a bit further with things this week.
At the start of the week, he went to see a doctor privately in Southampton. He was there all day while my mum had an appointment at Southamptom hospital, and we had been discussing the day prior him getting a second opinion, so he just arranged the consultation on the spot and was able to meet with a doctor that same day. The meeting was quite helpful. It was suggested that the recent MRI scan wasn't great quality and so this doctor didn't feel we could say for sure that there's a second cancer lesion (I guess benign lesions in the prostate are possible?) He felt a second scan was needed, but tentatively suggested that my dad might be suitable for HIFU (if no second lesion, or if it's small and negligible), or alternatively RARP.
Since then, my dad has also spoken again to one of the nurses overseeing his NHS care. They've advised a different treatment path, which is hormone therapy to be followed by radiotherapy a few months down the line. Because my dad previously had a blood clot while flying and is on blood thinners, they are advising against prostatectomy, though also said we didn't have to rule it out if my dad wanted to discuss that option. They've also suggested focal therapy wouldn't be an option, though we didn't really get a reason as to why. We did mention the scan apparently being poor quality and asked whether another was needed, but the suggestion was that it likely wouldn't have a bearing on things - the increase in the PSA would be enough to warrant treating my dad's cancer irrespective of whether the second lesion that they think might be visible on the second scan is cancerous or not.
So it feels like there's only really one treatment option for my dad, at least under his current NHS care. I can tell he's wanting to put the cancer out of his mind again, and I think he is happy to go with the hormone therapy and radiotherapy on that basis.
From my perspective, I'm worried having read that radiotherapy isn't always expected to cure the cancer, and that there are few treatment options to look at if the cancer returns, with prostatectomy usually not being an option post-radiotherapy. Am I right to be worried about that, or am I over-interpreting what I'm reading? What are my dad's prospects if the cancer returns following radiotherapy?
The doctor my dad met privately seemed to think he would be suitable for HIFU, and I don't know if there's any benefit in my dad going down that route, even if it means going privately. As far as I can understand, HIFU would still leave open the possibility of prostatectomy or radiotherapy at a later date if the cancer returns/persists, and would have fewer side effects?
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