Sorry to hear this.
Try and act rapidly as these are type 4 cells so speed is of the essence. The good news is if you get it removed while localised then life can be pretty much normal post surgery.
I’d recommend finding a top notch high volume (>100 per year) surgeon with a publicly proven track record. NeuroSAFE is prudent during surgery as gives near real-time visibility on margins while you are open. Retzius sparing approach to RARP is a good option as quicker recovery times…it’s technically more complex so a skilled surgeon really matters in this case.
I chose Guys London Bridge to have my op. It’s two hours away so bit of additional hassle but I wanted the top funded uk centre of excellence, top kit, top surgeon and crash recovery facilities on site. All these were met/exceeded. I stayed in London Bridge Hotel next door the night before as didn’t want to panic travelling at a ridiculously early hour as check in was 7am.
On the plus side surgery was a doddle and less drama than when I had my tonsils out as a kid….i had to keep reminding myself I’d had major surgery so not to overdo things.
i was dry after catheter removal at two weeks . Then minor leaks and dribbles after this for 5 weeks where I needed pads. After this all good and just occasional squirt when coughing and sneezing etc
I was back to the gym after 3 months and that was all fine. Just don’t train on a full bladder. I don’t need pads at all.
im just over 5 years post op and still PSA undetectable. Technically with cancer I don’t think cure is the right term but remission is more fitting but happy days either way.
ED not too much of an issue which tends to be fairly hit n miss post surgery from what I see. It’s not the same as pre-surgery but mostly I have about 90%-100% of function unless I’m tired. To bridge the last 20% in that case is as simple as popping something like 20mg viagra.
Please don’t feel too concerned about surgery as it’s not as big a drama as I had worked myself up to believe. It’s a massive head-spin in the final two weeks before surgery but you get there.
So happy days this far. My primary goal was always to be cancer free as all other considerations are secondary and can be managed. At the very least I’ve bought myself extra time so if the cancer does return hopefully the next gen treatments will be online.
Best of luck and use this group as a sounding board as much as you need as it was absolutely critical when I went through the process.
Btw surgery allows radiotherapy to be kept a back stop should it be needed for salvage recurrence.
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