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Post oncoloy appoinment and feeling overwhelmed

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Posted 21 Jan 2025 at 19:17

Hi all,

I've posted before, sorry for posting again. I had my oncology appointment yesterday, the consultant went through different treatment options, radiotherapy, brachotherapy and surgery. As I have Crohns disease radiotherapy is not an option as it would increase my chances of bowel cancer considerably. It seems like my best option is surgery. I have an appointment with a surgeon on the 5th of February and I also need a PET scan on the 6th. I felt fine leaving the appointment, however, today i feel like my world has caved it. Bit dramatic increase know.

I've been quite emotional, down, thinking lots about the side effects, the potential effect its going to have long term. It's been a tough day trying to process things.

Just wondered if anyone else felt like this and tips to manage it

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Posted 21 Jan 2025 at 22:04

I have been on this journey for just over 11 years. I have had surgery and three more salvage treatments plus a short bit of hormone treatment. On Thursday I have a consultation about another possible treatment, if that is refused I will be looking at another treatment. I am not worried about the outcome if the next meeting, i just ask what the next plan is. 

I have dealt with all the side effects that came my way and make best of what I have got.

As one of the inspiration member on here say ,if life give you lemons make lemonade.

Best of wishes for the future take the best option on offer and don't worry it won't change anything.

Thanks Chris 

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Posted 21 Jan 2025 at 23:59

Hi Ian,

We ALL know what you’re going through, trust me! We understand!

Once your treatment plan is in place I’m sue you will feel better. In the meantime be good to yourself, give yourself lots of treats and do nice things with your family. It won’t stop you worrying but will keep some normality in your life. And if you’re struggling seek help and support. I’m currently on a weeks holiday with 2 amazing friends from Maggies, one with PCa who had the Op, and the other had successful bowel cancer treatment….were having a blast!🤣🤣🤣

good luck with your treatment!

Derek

 
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