Hello fellow sufferers,
I'm desperately looking for anyone with similar symptom to mine.
I'm 29 and for years I've had this symptom. The longer I go without any s*x/mas*urbation, the more severe the painful cramp is once I get aroused/ho*ny. I don't even need to be erect at all, sometimes just reading something arousing is enough. In that moment, I feel like my entire perineum gets hard like a rock and when I flex my pelvic muscles, it hurts even more! This usually subsides in 1 or 2 minutes. Once the sensation is gone, I'm pain-free for the entire day no matter how long I have s*x/mas*urbate for.
The cramp is so unpleasant that it ruins my mood and I can't seem to find a way to solve this. Been to many urologists and nobody really knows what the issue could be. I remember that one time I got prescribed BACLOFEN and it made these cramps go away completely... so does that mean my pelvic floor might be overly tight? I sit a lot and been sitting really a lot past years since this started happening to me.
I tried a few exercises but it didnt seem to do anything so I'm just kinda hopeless... never found anybody on the internet with this symptom so I've been desperately trying to look for solutions.
Currently on nofap as I just don't want to be annoyed with this cramp. Just yesterday my female friend offered a FWB situation and once I read the message, again, my entire perineum cramped up in pain because obviously it got me aroused quite a bit. It's making me go crazy, really desperate :(
Appreciate any answer!