Steve’s surgery was very successful with all of the cancer seemingly contained and 75% nerve sparing which bodes well for future regaining of erections. Not much happening yet down there but it can take 2-3 years for the nerves to heal fully. We are coping with that; a penile pump has been prescribed to keep the tissue healthy and that’s easy enough to use. He’s tried tablets but no use so we are about to consider injections to get some life down there….but all of this is par for the course and the main objective was getting rid of the cancer which, according to 12 months of blood tests, has been a success.
Steve was unlucky in the incontinence department (statistically 5/100 men don’t recover continence due to damaged sphincter)…we now have a decision on him either living with it (he is 63) or having an artificial sphincter and pump fitted…we are going to meet with surgeon to discuss before deciding.
Anyway hopefully you won’t have to worry about that, most men on here do regain continence, if not straigh away, within a number of weeks, Steve’s case is not typical in that department so don’t dwell on it.
The ED will be a factor though but there are ways to get through it; just remember the key thing is eradicating the cancer!
Lots of advice on here…don’t be scared to ask.
Best wishes to you both