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Yes, I was 46 years old when I got the call...

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Posted 23 Mar 2025 at 19:59

Yes, at the tender age of just 46 years old, I got diagnosed with stage three (Gleason score 3+4...this always makes me think of a Saturday afternoon football results for some reason) prostate cancer. I am now heading uphill towards my fifty birthday and I am (thankfully) still here to tell the tale.

So, if you are reading this whilst waiting, just having received your diagnosis or knee deep in treatment I hear you! I have been there and got a t-shirt or two. 

When I first got diagnosed I was s*** scared, I literally thought that was it and I was destined to see the end. I searched all over the place for answers to all of the questions that I had swimming round my head and found that there were plenty of subjects/posts about the medical elements, not so much about the reality of what I could expect of my prostate cancer journey that lay ahead. 

I am now on a different path and thought that it was time that I share what I have learnt/experienced/been told or gathered from others that hold the prostate cancer club card.

You can find mine (and others like mine) journey here: https://prostatecancer.substack.com/ 

Stay safe, strong and remember that your journey will be unique to you (and to confirm, not medical advice from me, go get that from someone that has been officially handed a stethoscope!) 

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Posted 06 Nov 2025 at 13:03

Hey man, thank you for sharing that - really powerful post. I was deeply moved reading about your journey. It takes a lot of strength to open up about something as personal and frightening as a cancer diagnosis, and I’m sure your story will give hope to others going through the same.

I completely agree with what you said about the emotional side of it not being talked about enough. The medical facts are everywhere, but what really helps is hearing from people who’ve lived it, the fear, the waiting, the uncertainty, and then learning how to live with it and still move forward.

My advice to anyone reading your post - take it one step at a time, don’t get lost in statistics, and focus on what you can control. Surround yourself with people who lift you up and don’t be afraid to ask for help, mentally and emotionally just as much as physically.

Thanks again for sharing your journey. You’re doing something truly meaningful. Stay strong, brother! 👍

Edited by member 07 Nov 2025 at 07:38  | Reason: Not specified

xx

 
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