I’m 5 weeks post prostatectomy and been advised by nurse to masturbate even if flaccid. I’m due consultation with surgeon in few weeks to discuss my PSA results and was told I’d be given a penis pump for penile rehabilitation.
So in the meantime it’s manual stimulation. I had some semblance of a soft semi so I figured that’s good progress although it only happened once.
However, I’m not sure what to expect with a dry orgasm. About three times when I have attempted masturbation I have felt a pleasurable build up of pressure and a wave of sensation in my legs, as if it felt like how you’d wet orgasm before the release and then nothing. To be honest my fingers slipped as this build up was happening and then I couldn’t get myself back to that point. Is that dry orgasm and I should lower my expectations or had I kept a grip on my self and carried on would I have felt as if something releasing from tip of penis (with obviously nothing physically ejaculating).
I never thought I’d have to write such a post in all my life and I hope what I’ve written makes sense.