I am in this same group: RARP January 15, 2025 catheter removed Jan 29
I am 71 so this likely changes things. I consider myself fit, active etc at the same time as we age- just like old cars, some of the parts wear out and things take longer to heal
After catheter removal I was very incontinent. However in the weeks following I noticed some improvement in being able to sleep and stay almost dry during the night (this may have been 2-3-4 weeks)
I now struggle with both stress and urge incontinence
the progression goes like this
* dry at night, semi dry at night
* better in the mornings ( drier, less pads less urge and/or stress incontinence)
* as time goes on better longer in the day, less pads each day
However, this is a trend and there is considerable variability
For many men this progression can go from three months to 18 months, some of course have no incontinence issues, some have chronic incontinence
I have noticed a need for more research and agreement about all of this especially in terms of treatments
Almost everyone recommends kegels (some do not) however, and I think this is a big deal there is a recognized lack of agreement regarding how many, what type and how often) this is sited in the latest meta-analysis specifically on this issue even the experts in the field recognize a lack of agreement and lack of good efficacy research. Still, it seems a good bet that kegels, bladder re-training, working with a specialist pt ( trained to work with men following prostratectomy) and bio-feedback
it worries me that some professionals continue to advance ten sets a day ( more is better, no pain no gain)
the recommendations seems to be all over the place ( two sets, three sets, five sets, ten second repeats of long kegels only, 20-30 repeats of 2030 second holds (hold as hard as you can)
some do not recommend the short ones
as patients and in the prostrate community, we should work hard to find out what seems the better recommendations and share experience with one another
I have learned (experiment of one) that
* doing kegels correctly is very important
* too many are definitely counterproductive
* it is very important to not just train, build up bulk and make those muscles stronger and more responsive, it is equally if not more important to allow those muscles to rest, avoid over-training, and go along with some natural progress (listen to my body)
My therapist has me on two workouts a day
one set of progressive kegels (1/3 contraction, 2/3 contractions, full hold for few seconds then back down 2/3 -1/3 then rest)
one set of slower full contractions ( usually 15 seconds hold 15 seconds rest
four sets of ten fast contractions and and rest about two seconds each
Besides this, I am doing core strength exercises that incorporate kegels, stretches to help with abdominal space and pelvic floor expansion and rest
I have had one biofeedback session. I am now getting a handheld biofeedback device so I can incorporate this at home. For me, I really do need to keep an eye on form, make sure I am resting pelvic floor muscles (PFM) correctly and the biofeedback helps.
I have heard that others have benefited from the the various electrical stimulation devices exercisers. I am happy for those that benefited from these. However, there is anecdotal research that for some these can be problematic same for the emsella chair. My pt and in a recent consult with a leading urologist in my area, they advise against these techniques. My pt has personally encountered males who had major setbacks because of these. That was enough for me, again if it works for some, great
I share all of this in hopes it is helpful to some I hate incontinence, it has definitely compromised my quality of life. I tend to be optimistic, the cancer seems to be contained now which is great, I tend to believe the incontinence will get better- I had no idea it would be like this but it could take me a year to get better and if it does not there are alternatives. Meanwhile, I want to be as careful as possible that I do everything I can to get better with continence.
as a small example, I tried riding my exercise bike after my first month, I kept the workouts short ( 20 minutes hill workout) after three mornings of doing this- I had a major setback in terms of continence.
I backed off and tried again a few weeks ago ( three months out) I kept the workouts short about 20 minutes, similar results on the night of the third day, major setback, no sleep, little control, major leakage
I really need to take it slow which I hate, but I also hate being incontinent /
Any tips, suggestions, feedback is really appreciated
thanks everyone
I appreciate everyone that is part of this and shares