Hi again, mate.
I'd have thought it would have made more sense to see the surgeon after the scan result? Surely the results of the scan will significantly affect a decision as to whether your T3b disease is suitable for surgery?
I was T3a, extraprotastic extension, no seminal vesicles involvement, but Gleason 9(4+5).
Due to a heart problem there was much debate between surgeon, aneathetist and cardiologist as to my suitability for the op. During the two or three months deliberation, I was put on Bical as they initially thought RT was the most likely way forward. In the end, they agreed to give me what I wanted, and I had RARP.
It's not normal to have HT before surgery, but in my case it seems to have done no harm. In fact, I've read somewhere that HT prior to surgery, results in better outcomes and reduces the risk of BCR.
However, I was told that having HT prior to surgery can affect the post op histology report. It can alter the look of some cells and lead to an upgraded Gleason score.
I hope your consultation and scan goes well, mate. 👍
I understand your concern over the possible implications of caring for your mum whilst dealing with our disease and it's treatment.
In 2017, aged 88 years, my dad "died with prostate cancer' but I'm sure it speeded up his demise. From the day he died, me and my brother both took turns in caring for my mum, who was then 93 years old. She lived with us at our respective homes, one month on one month off.
Unfortunately both of us were later diagnosed with PCa. He had RT and HT, I had surgery. Despite our cancer setbacks we managed to continue to care for her. Then other health issues cropped up and we were no longer able to provide for her and sadly had to put her into a care home. She was there just over a year before she passed away at just over 100 years old!
I can therefore fully empathise with your concerns over looking after your mum. It's not easy when you're fit, mate, and it's much harder when you're not.
Age is certainly catching up with me. My eyesight not as good as it was, but looking at your profile photo you look fit and healthy, which will help you cope with whatever they end up throwing at you. Is that a big blue fin tuna you caught?
Only kidding, mate.😁
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