Hi Taps,
Thanks for your thoughts. I'm on the other side of the Op now and of course you were right, the only part of this whole process that you know nothing about, or actually feel, is the operation!
I seem to be doing well, a bit sore (it hurts when I laugh ir cough) and I'm definitely not too keen on the catheter but that is due to be removed on Wednesday at which point I'll find out how leak proof I'll be for the 3 hour journey home!
Regards
Nick.