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Posted 04 Jul 2025 at 17:47

I was wondering what experience others have had with the speed in which things happen. It’s probably just me being anxious as don’t like the thought of this cancer continuing to grow inside me untreated. Had my MRI results on 19th May (PIRADS 5 - T3a). Biopsy done 5th June. Met urology consultant for biopsy results 24th June (Gleason 4+3).

Now waiting for bone scan and oncologist. The oncologist appointment just came through for 31st July. That’s nearly another month. Not heard when bone scan will be done. My preference is for robotic prostatectomy depending what the oncologist says, so wonder how long I’ll be waiting for that.

Sorry, I’m not usually impatient but time is dragging at the moment.

User
Posted 13 Jul 2025 at 23:41

I'm in the US but for reference my timeline was very similar to yours  but one year ago:

 

May 1st, 2024: PSA test came back 12.7

May 14th 2024: MRI PIRADS 5 w/ EPE (capsular breach)

June 18th 2024: MRI guided transperineal biopsy which confirmed pca (gleason 4+5)

July 31st 2024: PSMA PET scan came back no metastatic spread. Official staging T3a.

August 19th 2024: DaVinci RARP. Clear margins achieved. Histology confirmed EPE but downgraded gleason to 4+3.

So far, PSA has remained undetectable but gearing up for next test in 2 weeks...

Good luck to you and your wife.

 

Mike

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Posted 04 Jul 2025 at 19:25

Dave ,my GP missed a PSA test (2010) and I was diagnosed three years later(2013) I then waited four months for the new robot to be installed at ours hospital. Earlier intervention may have given a better chance of eradicating the cancer. 11 and a half years on from diagnosis I have started HT treatment to now control the cancer. . I had possible symptoms 23 years ago. You will see it said that prostate cancer is a slow growing cancer, I think of it as a dripping tap in a bowl,  it holds on but then eventually starts to overflow. My preference was surgery so I didn't see an oncologist, both options supposedly have similar outcomes in terms of eradicating the cancer, it's the side effects that vary. 

Good luck with your choice.

Thanks Chris 

User
Posted 04 Jul 2025 at 22:58

Hi Davey

I don't think I ever saw an oncologist. Plenty of urologists but never an oncologist.

I was diagnosed during Covid. Gleason 8 (3+5) later updated Gleason 9 (4+5), T3a. It was two months after my bone scan that my RALP was first scheduled. That was cancelled on the day. I was booked in for another about six weeks later, that too was cancelled at the last minute. I eventually had the operation five months after the bone scan.

I was assured that, despite having a high Gleason and capsular breached staging, the five month waiting time was nothing to worry about. πŸ€”

Edited by member 04 Jul 2025 at 23:00  | Reason: Typo

User
Posted 05 Jul 2025 at 01:10

Hi Davey,

Waiting times can vary considerably for the various tests and actual treatment depending how busy they are and how long treatment lists are at your hospital.  Assuming the bone scan is clear and there are no contraindications, you could ask the Surgeon's Secretary what the waiting time for surgery is and get pre op done early so you could get on the operating list asap and say you would be happy to have the surgery at short notice to take a cancelled slot of another patient, if in need you are able to do this.

Barry
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Posted 05 Jul 2025 at 07:22
Hi Davey

I was also diagnosed T3a ,I opted for surgery at Solihull hospital which I had in Jan 2025 ,I was advised that the average waiting time was 62 days.

This proved to be a fairly accurate figure ,I did say that I would accept a cancellation to try and bring it forward ,I did not get one but 2 out of the 6 guys on the ward did ,so it’s worth a try .

My cousin is currently waiting for surgery at the same hospital ,his predicted wait time is slightly longer than mine was.

Good Luck

John

User
Posted 05 Jul 2025 at 09:16
With that T3A they may try to persuade you radiation is the better option. Might also be to discuss output from the bone scan. Can't think of any other reason to see an ONCO if you are eligible for RP and don't want RT.

Ask the Onco secretary or go see them privately.

User
Posted 10 Jul 2025 at 11:16

Hi Davey,

I'm very sorry to hear about your wife's diagnosis, mate. I'll keep everything crossed for the both of you. 🀞

User
Posted 25 Jul 2025 at 15:03
Dave,

I can't offer anything that will help calm your concerns. The speed of the test results is bound to start hares running in your mind. Who wouldn't think that it must be something bad if the results came back so quickly.

But it could just be that the lab or whatever weren't busy and it just got done extra quick. Or rather they were done at "normal" speed and they tell you it's two or three weeks just to give themselves wriggle room.

My experience is that hospitals treat time as a very elastic concept and don't always appreciate just how hard it is for patients to remain patient.

My wife was a hospital nurse and found most consultants to be fairly self absorbed and cold. Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't want a doctor collapsing in tears when they deal with you, but surely they could be a little more in touch.

I have to see an eye consultant every six months, I have asked many times for information, opinion, reassurance and received nothing but grunts and silence. He is the worst doctor I've ever dealt with but there is no choice as he is the senior consultant and complaining will just get you thrown off his list.

I hope things go well for you and your wife. As you said just a short while ago you were both fit and well. The world has a way of pulling the rug out when you least expect it.

Mick

User
Posted 30 Jul 2025 at 09:34

Hi Davey,

The various scans somewhat confuse me.   I had three scans in pretty close succession.

The first, in Aug 2022, was an mpMRI it didn't identify any bone issues.

The second in Oct 2022, was CT Thorax, CT Pelvis and CT abdomen, all with contrast. It found scattered lytic looking areas in pelvic  and femoral bones.

The third, only a week later, was an NM whole body scan. It showed mildly increased mid cervical spine activity on left consistent with degenerative change. Further arthropathic activity at acromioclavicular joints and hips. Remainder of bone tracer distribution unremarkable. Summary no scintigraphic features of skeletal metastatic disease. No mention of any lytic areas or anomalies in the pelvis picked up by the CT scan?

So three scans, with three different results.

I've never had a PSMA scan, so I'm not sure exactly what they are used for or when you need one?

I've tried to research which of the three scans is most accurate for picking up bone metastases. I've found nothing conclusive. As far as I can see all three can indicate what appears to be cancer in the bones, but these 'hot spots'  can be other noncancerous bone diseases, damage and fractures and infections. Presumably, without biopsies to the specific areas of concern, it up to an expert to differentiate between what is cancerous and what is not?

It's all a little confusing and I hope one of our more knowlegeable posters can explain the apparent discrepancies and which scans are best for detecting bone disease?

I've never had a PSMA scan. I'm not sure of when this is used?

Anyway, I saw my surgeon after the first two scans. He was quite concerned about the first two scans, "He has had a CT scan recently which reports some lytic areas in the pelvis of indeterminate nature. I note MRI did not identify any suspicious lesions in the pelvis."

In the same letter, he later stated, "If he has no metastatic disease on imagining then he would be a candidate for radical treatment"

Presumably, after this consultation, and later later bone scan. He viewed the results and approved surgery.

This period of my diagnosis was the most confusing and scariest. I sympathise with you, mate.

Edited by member 30 Jul 2025 at 09:49  | Reason: Typo

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Posted 04 Jul 2025 at 19:17
Fortunately I had no need for a bone scan but here are my timelines for comparison:

PSA β†’ MRI 22 Days

MRI β†’ Biopsy 21 Days

Biopsy β†’ Positive Diagnosis (Gleason 3+4) 22 Days

Positive Diagnosis β†’ RARP 26 Days

User
Posted 04 Jul 2025 at 19:25

Dave ,my GP missed a PSA test (2010) and I was diagnosed three years later(2013) I then waited four months for the new robot to be installed at ours hospital. Earlier intervention may have given a better chance of eradicating the cancer. 11 and a half years on from diagnosis I have started HT treatment to now control the cancer. . I had possible symptoms 23 years ago. You will see it said that prostate cancer is a slow growing cancer, I think of it as a dripping tap in a bowl,  it holds on but then eventually starts to overflow. My preference was surgery so I didn't see an oncologist, both options supposedly have similar outcomes in terms of eradicating the cancer, it's the side effects that vary. 

Good luck with your choice.

Thanks Chris 

User
Posted 04 Jul 2025 at 22:27

Hi Chris

You say “My preference was surgery so I didn't see an oncologist”. My preference too is for surgery and I thought my appointment with the oncologist was to discuss the results of the SMDT meeting, or have I got that wrong? 

Thanks

Dave

User
Posted 04 Jul 2025 at 22:58

Hi Davey

I don't think I ever saw an oncologist. Plenty of urologists but never an oncologist.

I was diagnosed during Covid. Gleason 8 (3+5) later updated Gleason 9 (4+5), T3a. It was two months after my bone scan that my RALP was first scheduled. That was cancelled on the day. I was booked in for another about six weeks later, that too was cancelled at the last minute. I eventually had the operation five months after the bone scan.

I was assured that, despite having a high Gleason and capsular breached staging, the five month waiting time was nothing to worry about. πŸ€”

Edited by member 04 Jul 2025 at 23:00  | Reason: Typo

User
Posted 05 Jul 2025 at 01:10

Hi Davey,

Waiting times can vary considerably for the various tests and actual treatment depending how busy they are and how long treatment lists are at your hospital.  Assuming the bone scan is clear and there are no contraindications, you could ask the Surgeon's Secretary what the waiting time for surgery is and get pre op done early so you could get on the operating list asap and say you would be happy to have the surgery at short notice to take a cancelled slot of another patient, if in need you are able to do this.

Barry
User
Posted 05 Jul 2025 at 07:22
Hi Davey

I was also diagnosed T3a ,I opted for surgery at Solihull hospital which I had in Jan 2025 ,I was advised that the average waiting time was 62 days.

This proved to be a fairly accurate figure ,I did say that I would accept a cancellation to try and bring it forward ,I did not get one but 2 out of the 6 guys on the ward did ,so it’s worth a try .

My cousin is currently waiting for surgery at the same hospital ,his predicted wait time is slightly longer than mine was.

Good Luck

John

User
Posted 05 Jul 2025 at 09:16
With that T3A they may try to persuade you radiation is the better option. Might also be to discuss output from the bone scan. Can't think of any other reason to see an ONCO if you are eligible for RP and don't want RT.

Ask the Onco secretary or go see them privately.

User
Posted 10 Jul 2025 at 11:10

Things are plodding along. Bone scan now booked for 21st July. Oncologist on 31st July. I spoke to my urology nurse yesterday asking why I need to see the oncologist, as my preference was for surgery. She said they've not had their SMDT meeting about me yet, but I'm on the list for surgery at Addenbrookes, Cambridge and in any case it would be a good idea to speak to the oncologist.

In other news my wife has just been diagnosed with breast cancer. Or to be accurate, high grade DCIS which means it's localised, but likely to break out. She's booked in for a mastectomy on 29th July. This apparently is the only option. Of course we're in bits about this. Unbelievable that just a couple of months ago we were healthy fit and active, looking forward to holidays and a great 2025. To be honest, my prostate cancer has taken back stage to this. It's such a massive psychological and emotional thing for a woman to have a mastectomy.

The only positive I can find from this, is that neither of us have symptoms, and if it wasn't for the national breast screening program, and me badgering the GP for a PSA blood test, we would be oblivious to what was going on inside us.

User
Posted 10 Jul 2025 at 11:16

Hi Davey,

I'm very sorry to hear about your wife's diagnosis, mate. I'll keep everything crossed for the both of you. 🀞

User
Posted 13 Jul 2025 at 23:41

I'm in the US but for reference my timeline was very similar to yours  but one year ago:

 

May 1st, 2024: PSA test came back 12.7

May 14th 2024: MRI PIRADS 5 w/ EPE (capsular breach)

June 18th 2024: MRI guided transperineal biopsy which confirmed pca (gleason 4+5)

July 31st 2024: PSMA PET scan came back no metastatic spread. Official staging T3a.

August 19th 2024: DaVinci RARP. Clear margins achieved. Histology confirmed EPE but downgraded gleason to 4+3.

So far, PSA has remained undetectable but gearing up for next test in 2 weeks...

Good luck to you and your wife.

 

Mike

User
Posted 25 Jul 2025 at 14:32

I had my bone scan on Monday 21st July. The radiographer said my consultant would get the results in 2 to 3 weeks. Yesterday, 4 days later, I got a call from the Urology Dept to arrange a meeting with the consultant next week on 29th July to “discuss” my bone scan results. The guy from urology who phoned me said he couldn’t discuss my results over the phone. Now I’m worried! 

User
Posted 25 Jul 2025 at 15:03
Dave,

I can't offer anything that will help calm your concerns. The speed of the test results is bound to start hares running in your mind. Who wouldn't think that it must be something bad if the results came back so quickly.

But it could just be that the lab or whatever weren't busy and it just got done extra quick. Or rather they were done at "normal" speed and they tell you it's two or three weeks just to give themselves wriggle room.

My experience is that hospitals treat time as a very elastic concept and don't always appreciate just how hard it is for patients to remain patient.

My wife was a hospital nurse and found most consultants to be fairly self absorbed and cold. Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't want a doctor collapsing in tears when they deal with you, but surely they could be a little more in touch.

I have to see an eye consultant every six months, I have asked many times for information, opinion, reassurance and received nothing but grunts and silence. He is the worst doctor I've ever dealt with but there is no choice as he is the senior consultant and complaining will just get you thrown off his list.

I hope things go well for you and your wife. As you said just a short while ago you were both fit and well. The world has a way of pulling the rug out when you least expect it.

Mick

User
Posted 29 Jul 2025 at 15:19

Met a consultant urologist today for results of bone scan. It wasn't the same consultant I met before as he's on holiday.

Bone scan shows a small area, a "hot spot" on the spine around the small of the back. Not 100% sure it is metastatic. Consultant seemed surprised it wasn't picked up by the original MRI as it covered the same area. He will discuss this week with MDT, and might push for a PSMA PET scan. He explained PSMA PET scans are very expensive, and not routinely offered, and indeed not available at my local hospital so I'd have to go to another hospital. I already have an appointment booked with the oncologist on Thursday, so he will also be made aware of this development.

If it is metastatic, or they think it's metastatic, it'll most likely rule out RARP as an option so I'll be forced down the radiotherapy plus hormone therapy route.

 

 

User
Posted 29 Jul 2025 at 18:28

Hi Davey,

I don't understand the doubt as to whether your 'hot spot' is metastatic disease or not. My CT scan showed anomalies on pelvic and lower back and leg bones in my body. The bone scan showed that they weren't showing metastases. 

They judged that the suspicious areas were not linked to my prostate cancer and I had surgery. 

It seems odd that in your case they can't seem to make up their mind whether or not the disease has spread to your bones?

User
Posted 30 Jul 2025 at 08:17

Hi Adrian

The consultant showed me the bone scan on his screen. It was a black & white image of my skeleton, without a blemish, except in the middle of my spine above the pelvic area was a bright white spot. This is what they think may well be metastasis. 

User
Posted 30 Jul 2025 at 09:34

Hi Davey,

The various scans somewhat confuse me.   I had three scans in pretty close succession.

The first, in Aug 2022, was an mpMRI it didn't identify any bone issues.

The second in Oct 2022, was CT Thorax, CT Pelvis and CT abdomen, all with contrast. It found scattered lytic looking areas in pelvic  and femoral bones.

The third, only a week later, was an NM whole body scan. It showed mildly increased mid cervical spine activity on left consistent with degenerative change. Further arthropathic activity at acromioclavicular joints and hips. Remainder of bone tracer distribution unremarkable. Summary no scintigraphic features of skeletal metastatic disease. No mention of any lytic areas or anomalies in the pelvis picked up by the CT scan?

So three scans, with three different results.

I've never had a PSMA scan, so I'm not sure exactly what they are used for or when you need one?

I've tried to research which of the three scans is most accurate for picking up bone metastases. I've found nothing conclusive. As far as I can see all three can indicate what appears to be cancer in the bones, but these 'hot spots'  can be other noncancerous bone diseases, damage and fractures and infections. Presumably, without biopsies to the specific areas of concern, it up to an expert to differentiate between what is cancerous and what is not?

It's all a little confusing and I hope one of our more knowlegeable posters can explain the apparent discrepancies and which scans are best for detecting bone disease?

I've never had a PSMA scan. I'm not sure of when this is used?

Anyway, I saw my surgeon after the first two scans. He was quite concerned about the first two scans, "He has had a CT scan recently which reports some lytic areas in the pelvis of indeterminate nature. I note MRI did not identify any suspicious lesions in the pelvis."

In the same letter, he later stated, "If he has no metastatic disease on imagining then he would be a candidate for radical treatment"

Presumably, after this consultation, and later later bone scan. He viewed the results and approved surgery.

This period of my diagnosis was the most confusing and scariest. I sympathise with you, mate.

Edited by member 30 Jul 2025 at 09:49  | Reason: Typo

User
Posted 30 Jul 2025 at 10:11

Hi Adrian

Yes I also find it very confusing. This last 3 months or so has introduced me to a whole new language, and lots of new acronyms! I've only had 2 scans in my journey so far - an mpMRI, and the bone scan. Never had a CT scan. I think part of the doubt about the "hot spot" on my spine, is that it's quite small, and normally metastasis in the bone would be together with a PSA considerably more than my 7.14 back in early May. The PSMA scan, if I'm allowed to have it, gives a clearer more accurate picture - it uses a radioactive tracer that binds to prostate specific membrane antigen (PSMA). I copied that from Google by the way!

User
Posted 31 Jul 2025 at 12:04

Saw the oncologist this morning. Due to possible/probable metastasis to spine, as per bone scan, he strongly advised I go down the route of hormone therapy plus radiotherapy immediately, rather than wait another month for a PSMA PET scan (waiting list) to confirm the metastasis or otherwise. Although my preference pre bone scan results has been for RARP, I see the sense in this.

He's prescribed me Orgovyx (relugolix) tablets today, and I've taken my first dose this morning. I look forward to the side effects 😳. Annoying to feel so fit and well today, in the knowledge that this is likely to change some time soon, but I guess that's the joy of prostate cancer!

He has requested the PSMA PET scan for me, and presumably I'll start radiotherapy after I've had this.

User
Posted 01 Aug 2025 at 00:11
Are they treating the possible met with RT too?
User
Posted 01 Aug 2025 at 08:01

Hi Jonathan

I've not started RT yet. The meeting yesterday with the oncologist was fairly short but he said he will see me again in 4 weeks. I think RT will start after the PSMA PET scan, and if it proves to be metastasis, then presume RT will treat that too. That's what I thought. I'll be sure to clarify this when I see him again.

 
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