I have had 5 years since diagnosis and now in my 4th year since RP. My cancer is aggressive, the doc was dismayed ay the effect of enza.
My reasoning is that chemo would take a minimum of 6 rounds. I have read that the later rounds can be 'brutal' as the docetaxel is cumulative (is this correct ?)
I put it to the doc that after chemo I might have 18 months to 2 years before I find myself in exactly the same place as now. The doc did not disagree, in fact the doc indicated it could be less. The doc said that my PSA would start rising again as soon as I stopped chemo.
It sounds ungrateful but I have had enough of hospital visits, waiting for scans and blood tests which will lead inevitably to the same conclusion.
I have always had an active life rock climbing and cycle touring , I now lack the energy for both. Gardening and easy walks do not appeal
There are two of us in this . My wife has an active life in choirs , 'crafting' and charity shops and her life is being blighted by the cancer . Another 2 years of watching the PSA go up , constant hospital visits ..... would continue the emotional stress she is under.
I would far rather release her from this.
We are both 70 , the children are grown up.
The doc is disappointed in my decision . If she had said another 5 years , relatively treatment free I would consider it.
Thanks for your reply. All the best with your treatment.