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Posted 15 Oct 2025 at 08:09

Less than 24 hours post RALP. So far so good - catheter is a bit sore, is that normal? Also pain just under ribs - is that normal? Apologies for the questions - best wishes to all in this group

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Posted 15 Oct 2025 at 09:38

Hello.

Welcome to the forum, mate.

Yes, the catheter can cause tenderness and discomfort and you can get aches and pains in the abdominal area and shoulders apparently. Because you're usually only in for a night people tend to forget that they've had major surgery.

Good luck with your recovery and please keep us updated with your progress. 👍

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Posted 15 Oct 2025 at 10:33

Cheshire, get some instilagel, hydrocaine or optilube from the chemist. They are gels designed for catheter care available without prescription at most pharmacies except Boots. They contain anesthetic, antiseptic and lubricant. They cost around £3 a syringe, they have a plastic tip. In hospital the nurse puts the tip slightly into the eye of the penis.At home just try to get some gel into the eye of the penis , do not try pulling the catheter out push the penis back to expose a bit more of the catheter and lube it. 

These gels are designed for catheter use , many medical sites say do not use vaseline.

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Posted 15 Oct 2025 at 09:38

Hello.

Welcome to the forum, mate.

Yes, the catheter can cause tenderness and discomfort and you can get aches and pains in the abdominal area and shoulders apparently. Because you're usually only in for a night people tend to forget that they've had major surgery.

Good luck with your recovery and please keep us updated with your progress. 👍

Edited by member 15 Oct 2025 at 09:41  | Reason: Additional text

User
Posted 15 Oct 2025 at 10:33

Cheshire, get some instilagel, hydrocaine or optilube from the chemist. They are gels designed for catheter care available without prescription at most pharmacies except Boots. They contain anesthetic, antiseptic and lubricant. They cost around £3 a syringe, they have a plastic tip. In hospital the nurse puts the tip slightly into the eye of the penis.At home just try to get some gel into the eye of the penis , do not try pulling the catheter out push the penis back to expose a bit more of the catheter and lube it. 

These gels are designed for catheter use , many medical sites say do not use vaseline.

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Posted 16 Oct 2025 at 15:32

Hi Cheshire.   My top tip for catheter is do away with the stand for your night bag and place it in a cat litter tray as I found it easier to sleep with    Hopefully you’ve got 2 thigh straps so shower with one , take it off and use the other that dry and vice versa    You will get used to it.   Good luck with recovery 

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Posted 16 Oct 2025 at 16:27

Post op I also had pain under the ribs. It shifted about a bit. Took a while to resolve. I also got really bad colic as well 3 weeks post op. When I mentioned this to surgeon he said he could not be responsible for anything I described key hole surgery is just that. The clinical nurses begged to differ, she said it's common and my body was resetting itself after a lot of internal trauma....

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Posted 16 Oct 2025 at 20:23

The pain you are experiencing around the diaphragm sounds like trapped carbon dioxide gas in the abdominal cavity. It often causes a referred pain in the shoulder. I had it and its not very nice. Thankfully it doesn't last too long. CO2 is used with laparoscopic surgery to inflate the abdomen and separate the organs. Some gets left behind. It's not surprising it's painful when you think about it. Have you ever belched after a fizzy drink and the gas comes out of your nose? Ouch.

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Posted 17 Oct 2025 at 07:30

I didn’t have any pain per se post op but was full of wind and ended up belching for about 3 days to get rid of it. At least it was not from the rear! As my wife said at the time it reminded her of the scene in the elevator in the original Willy wonka film. Good luck with the recovery. 

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Posted 17 Oct 2025 at 09:09

Thank you for the replies. Back home now, still painful but seems to be getting better. Just need to speak with my nurse about number 2s now!

 
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