Chris and Antoinette, wishing you both the very best. @Antoinette, my OH keeps a bottle of water by the bed. He gets thirsty from the sweats that can happen at any time, day or night, even if he then has to wee it out during the night. Anything that is nice and reduces stress is good for him. He walks miles every day. At first it was less because of surgery + radiation + ADT. But now it is more than ever before. I would think decorating for Christmas with family would be doable and good for all.