I so agree 100%. They make make more work for themselves by just relying on forms and protocols blah blah blah.
The staff in admin are not trained in medical issues at all. I personally know some and I'm not surprised at the weird Chinese whisperer syndrome.
Jaw dropping lack of empathy, I heartily agree with.
I also think there is a lot of patronising too.
I was shocked at the CSN we first saw. Quite frankly I never want to see her again.
She pushed printouts from the Prostate Cancer uk at us, and practically laughed when I said how concerned about our sex life I was. It was appalling. I came out feeling devastated.
Next time I may have their recommendations for health workers on what to offer men on HT, and offer to her saying, " I don't think you've seen this"
When my husband rings up to ask a query, you leave a message and someone gets back to you later. It's not yet been 'his nurse' and not once has anyone said "How are you? How are you finding the side effects? "
Actually he's very well and due to our strong bond, which is even stronger if that's possible, and Viagra from his lady GP, things are about 90% of what they were which we think is marvellous.