Hi ,another wife here ! My husband’s stats were 4+5 spread to para aorta nodes , he also had early chemo . He was part of the stampede trial but arm j that included both Abi and Enzo . He was 55 at diagnosis and 66 now , he’s still working and living for today .
When he was on both drugs plus other meds he was constantly tired ,then about 3 yrs ago the trial concluded and said taking both meds had no overall benefit to taking just one so they stopped Enzo and kept him on Abi . His strength and tiredness began to ease . He’s nowhere near as strong as he was ( he is 10 yrs older ) but the tiredness has become less . But the main thing is his PSA has remained as undetectable all this time .
Best of luck in your journey, I hope this at least gives you some comfort and you both can enjoy many years to come.
Debby