@edwardshephard. Thanks for sharing. Much appreciated. I've been on Relugolix for 5 months and was about to start a conversation asking "Is anyone else getting their butt kicked by Relugolix?"
Thankfully, I have not felt Relugolix affecting my mental health, apart from occassional bouts of listlessness. But my physical health has definitely been hit - I have not felt a tiredness quite like this before. That in itself has been somewhat depressing, as has the chronic sleep disruption, which itself erodes physical fitness and mental sharpness.
If I spend the morning running errands, grocery shopping, maybe some time spent tidying the garage, by about 2 or 3 I am nodding off while trying to read or type. And during physical activity I get almost a warning feeling, like my body is telling me I'm going to regret doing even one more physical chore.
From the reading I have managed to do, it seems Relugolix (Rx for short) has a couple of advantages in my situation. I have atrial fibrillation and Rx is considered one of the bettewr approaches to crushing testosterone without affecting heart rate.
The rapid recovery of testosterone upon stopping Rx is also appealing. I don't say this as a guy who frets about "low T" because I've had relatively low T (12) for 10 years while maintaining normla sexual function and holding down a high pressure job with lots of travel.
However, what strikes me is that the oncologists say things like "I'd like to keep you on the Relugolix for 18 months" which makes sense for absolutely crushing testosterone, but no sense at all if quality of life is a factor in the equation. Even six months of nightly sleep disturbance is a health risk in my opinion. And unless you've been given advice about avoiding penile atrophy Rx is a threat to resuming sexual functionality. (For the record, I have not heard anything from anyone involved in my prostate cancer treatment on the subject of penile atrophy).
@Peter My feeling is that oncologists are not giving adequate thought to the Rx side effects. And neither they or the urology folks are monitoring treatment closely enough. While I am being treated by the NHS, I have paid privately for tests that I think I need. My journey/strategy has been as follows: in March I chose hormone + radiation over surgery in response to a finding of Gleason 7 (4+3). This was after a biopsy prompted by PSA 9 and an MRI showing changes from 2024.
Before starting Rx in April I asked the urologist if he was going to test my testosterone level. This would seem essential to get a proper picture of how Rx was performing, and to measure recover. But he just said "No need, the Relugolix will crush it." So I paid for a test and it was 9.4 before Rx. I paid for another test after 50 days of Rx and my T was down to 0.6 (chemical castration = 1 and target for radiotherapy is 0.67. (Also, my PSA was down to 2.68 just due to Rx. Thankfully, when I showed these numbers to my NHS oncologist he scheduled the start of my radiotherapy (RT) for July 1, three months after starting Rx and three months earlier than previously stated.
I am now awaiting the first PSA results after the 4x5 RT sessions in July.
Good luck to you both.