Hello there,
First time posting.
What has brought me here, is my husband was sent for initial tests December last year, as he was mainly having problems peeing (stop/start, week flow).
His PSA test was okay (though we weren’t told at the time what the reading was), so the GP undertook a rectal exam, and said the prostate was enlarged with modules.
A referral was then made to the urology department at the hospital where they also did a rectal exam, said they felt no modules, but did feel an enlargement. A few months later my husband had to to a flow test at the same hospital.
In the summer, he was contacted by the hospital who advised surgery would be needed to shave the prostate, this was undertaken 4 weeks ago. During the surgery the surgeon discovered 2 strictures, which he thought may have been the main reason for the problem with peeing. He said the prostrate wasn’t overly enlarged and he would expect to see a larger prostate in someone of my husband’s age, he is 58, but the surgeon shaved anyway.
Following the surgery, my husband has to perform self dilation, which he will have to do for life now, to try and prevent the urethra from closing up again. We were told by the urologist, post surgery that from the biopsy taken, 18% was discovered to have cancer cells. We were told that my husbands PSA was 1.8 when taken last December and he has been placed on an “active surveillance” program, with a PSA test to be undertaken in December and an MRI in January (they won’t do any sooner, as my husband needs to heal from the surgery, and the hospital advise an MRI taken any sooner could give a false reading).
My worry is that the biopsy was taken from the centre of the prostate and not the outer part and that this could have given a false reading. My husband has been told he is Gleason 6 (3 + 3), I’m concerned this may be escalated higher when the MRI is undertaken.
Has anyone else had a similar experience?
I’m reeling from this news, feel permanently knotted up in my stomach. My husband is taking it better than me, says no point in worrying about something we can’t change.
I’m 58 too. I stopped working in January this year, after working 40 years full time, and we had it all planned out. My early retirement first, my husband will carry on working until he is 63 and will then retire. We had so many plans to travel around the UK.
We have no children, it’s always been just us, though some friends and family are being very supportive (though I have heard absolutely nothing from my brother, which is a bit hurtful, but nothing I can do about that).
I just feel our whole world has been turned upside down in a matter of a heartbeat.
Sorry for the long post, I would be interested to hear if anyone else is in the same position or had similar experience.
Thanks for reading ☺️