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15 years on (continued)

User
Posted 07 Jul 2014 at 22:12
Best of luck TG with the treatment. The hospice sounds the right place for now and the home of Guinness awaits....
Stay Calm And Carry On.
User
Posted 07 Jul 2014 at 23:14

The Hospice is the best place to get you sorted and back on your feet Barry, plus I have heard on the grapevine that they have a 5 star menu.http://community.prostatecanceruk.org/editors/tiny_mce/plugins/emoticons/img/smiley-wink.gif


Thinking of you and Karen X


BFN


Julie X

NEVER LAUGH AT A LIVE DRAGON
User
Posted 08 Jul 2014 at 11:01
Well I am at the Hospice having been driven there by No1 so who left home at 5am to take some of the stress away from her which is very kind of him and as us Military types knows goes beyond the call of duty...it's taken over 30 minutes to post this due to a a befuddled mind (more morphine matron) so I will hand over to my son.....


Ok, dad is settled in, filled out a few forms, the chap opposite make dad look fighting fit. Joking aside he isn't well. Karen getting down here later. I was a bit worried when the nursed asked if we liked faggots, then realised she was talking about lunch!!!

No 1 son. Will keep you posted.
User
Posted 08 Jul 2014 at 11:15
Hi Barry and James,

It's great to know that everything is sorted at the hospice, I hope they can the pain relief organised and delivered a.s.a.p.

James, what exactly were you and your dad wearing when you arrived there? (I know how fond Barry is of fancy dress}.

Something must have been odd if you were asked the f***** question!


Get some rest Barry, and then let us hear some good updates.


All the very best,


George, Lynn & Kat
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User
Posted 08 Jul 2014 at 15:24

Barry glad that you arrived safe and sound, it sounds as if you arrived in style thanks to No 1 son James.  Now you are there lets hope things can be sorted quickly for you.


Not really sure about the f***** comment was you wearing your waistcoat? or perhaps Heston Bluementhol is cooking lunch.


Much love as usual.


BFN


Julie X

NEVER LAUGH AT A LIVE DRAGON
User
Posted 08 Jul 2014 at 16:17
Barry and James

It is good to know that you got to the hospice safely, thanks to James, and you are now settling in. So pleased to hear that the pain control has started – even if you are a little befuddled at the moment.

As George has already said, we need to hear some good updates now to show that you are comfortable.

Best wishes

Alan and Celia
User
Posted 08 Jul 2014 at 18:41
Thanks for the update TG/James. Hopefully they will get the treatment sorted and you will be able to start posting again very soon

Take care
Bri
User
Posted 08 Jul 2014 at 19:13
Every day i think of you all, the hospice seems to know just what you need and how to get you stable. I think the 5 star menu really helps. The grounds are lovely too so you can find a nice spot and have a siesta. Charge your triple As and keep Dublin in your sight. If they offer you relaxation therapy take it, Mick always stuck his nose in the air at manicures,pedicures and massages called the Steiner salon on the ships Frankensteiners. However he really enjoyed all 3 in the hospice. # 1 son has come up trumps again xxxx
Mandy Mo
User
Posted 09 Jul 2014 at 13:35

Hi Barry,


Just catching up on posts, so sorry to hear the pain is back i really hope the hospice get it all under control.


Must say after seeing the pictures i would never have bloody left, just move in the hammock and beer fridge sorted http://community.prostatecanceruk.org/editors/tiny_mce/plugins/emoticons/img/smiley-sealed.gif


All our love and prays to you all


Si x

Don't deny the diagnosis; try to defy the verdict
User
Posted 09 Jul 2014 at 19:02
What a strange day, I keep hallucinating and this is quite bewildering even as I write this now I am writing pure rubbifish and actually wrote whether word Vikings instead of something else.
This is now Karen taking the iPad off Barry and finishing his post. He is very confused and keeps falling asleep which may be the infection, the cancer or the drugs but I am now making him say goodnight to you all and closing down for the night. If he starts up again and writes gibberish this is why but says he intends to be back refreshed soon and to remind you all that Life is for living. Night night x

User
Posted 09 Jul 2014 at 19:39

Hi Barry and Karen. Just to say love to you both,


 


Fiona.

User
Posted 09 Jul 2014 at 21:02
Thanks Karen for finishing Barry's post. Hopefully some rest will help. Nothing can be said to make this any easier, but you know I am thinking of you both and hope you can get some rest and tomorrow Barry might be more coherent, though we might not realise it!! Hugs and best wishes! Paul
User
Posted 09 Jul 2014 at 22:08
Hi Barry Karen
It will be the drugs hope when you get home they wont give you such heavy duty ones as all you will do is sleep like Eric does and he hates feeling this way.but knowing you Barry you will not let this happen as you always say life is for living and
boy you have not let yourself down on that one.
Best wishes to you both
Carol Eric
User
Posted 09 Jul 2014 at 23:20
Just to say love to you both, Janet
User
Posted 10 Jul 2014 at 09:05
Hi. Gang,
Writing this at 08.46 so you can see how long it takes me to write this. Had a sound nights sleep and woke feeling almost of sound mind, can't remember much about yesterday. Urine bag full to the seams, just as well I woke when I did. Breakfast has just arrived so I had best sign off, strange my iPad feels very spongy.
Time now 09.03 so 17 minutes to write this.
Life is for living
Barry ( alias Barrington )
Back from breakfast ( I only wanted cornflakes) I won't bore with any more today I think just sleeping will do me the power of good and talking about power I will leave it up to the powers in here to work out which medication is doing me good relating to pain issues and which are causing mental issues.....No sarcastic replies required
Life is for living
Barry (alias Barrington )

Edited by member 10 Jul 2014 at 09:39  | Reason: Not specified

User
Posted 10 Jul 2014 at 10:54
Good to see your post on here this morning Barry.

Sleep is GOOD, rest up and get stronger.

Your mental prowess continues to surpass mine too. I wish I could type a message as quickly as you.
I'm in a permanent fog, and that's without morphine. : )~

Love from all of us in Jarrow,,

Stay crazy me old mate,

Warmest wishes always,


'The Fog On The Tyne'.
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User
Posted 10 Jul 2014 at 19:21
Barry some of the opiate drugs combined with steroids can have odd mental side effects and there are many different combinations and individual responses. It may take a while to find a combination and dose level that keeps you relatively pain free and still able to function normally.
Mick could not take mst it made him very irrational he got switched to fentanyl patches.
You amaze me that you even have the inclination to post
Get as much sleep as you canand encourage Karen to nap with you xxx
Mandy Mo
User
Posted 10 Jul 2014 at 22:42

Dear Barry


I have been a long time admirer of yours and , although you have only given us brief accounts


of your life history I can see that you are a true warrior through and through as you show all the


traits of a soldier , or should I say British soldier , the best in the world, with your courage and


sense of humour under relentless , painful conditions.


I have had a couple of pints, which I am sure you will not begrudge and I would like to express


the gratitude that the public feel towards you and your comrades for defending us so magnificently


over the years. It is a poem by Kipling entitled, quite appropriately 'Tommy' and it illustrates how


little our forces are appreciated until the guns begin to fire. I know that you will completely understand


the sentiments of this piece and be aware of how highly you are thought of. The message is still


the same today as it was when this was written


Love


Ray and Beryl


 


TOMMY


I went into a public-'ouse to get a pint o' beer,


The publican 'e up an' sez, "We serve no red-coats here."


The girls be'ind the bar they laughed an' giggled fit to die,


I outs into the street again an' to myself sez I:


   O it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "Tommy, go away";


   But it's "Thank you, Mister Atkins", when the band begins to play,


   The band begins to play, my boys, the band begins to play,


   O it's "Thank you, Mister Atkins", when the band begins to play.


 


I went into a theatre as sober as could be,


They gave a drunk civilian room, but 'adn't none for me;


They sent me to the gallery or round the music-'alls,


But when it comes to fightin', Lord! they'll shove me in the stalls!


   For it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "Tommy, wait outside";


   But it's "Special train for Atkins" when the trooper's on the tide,


   The troopship's on the tide, my boys, the troopship's on the tide,


   O it's "Special train for Atkins" when the trooper's on the tide.


 


Yes, makin' mock o' uniforms that guard you while you sleep


Is cheaper than them uniforms, an' they're starvation cheap;


An' hustlin' drunken soldiers when they're goin' large a bit


Is five times better business than paradin' in full kit.


   Then it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "Tommy, 'ow's yer soul?"


   But it's "Thin red line of 'eroes" when the drums begin to roll,


   The drums begin to roll, my boys, the drums begin to roll,


   O it's "Thin red line of 'eroes" when the drums begin to roll.


 


We aren't no thin red 'eroes, nor we aren't no blackguards too,


But single men in barricks, most remarkable like you;


An' if sometimes our conduck isn't all your fancy paints,


Why, single men in barricks don't grow into plaster saints;


   While it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "Tommy, fall be'ind",


   But it's "Please to walk in front, sir", when there's trouble in the wind,


   There's trouble in the wind, my boys, there's trouble in the wind,


   O it's "Please to walk in front, sir", when there's trouble in the wind.


 


You talk o' better food for us, an' schools, an' fires, an' all:


We'll wait for extry rations if you treat us rational.


Don't mess about the cook-room slops, but prove it to our face


The Widow's Uniform is not the soldier-man's disgrace.


   For it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "Chuck him out, the brute!"


   But it's "Saviour of 'is country" when the guns begin to shoot;


   An' it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' anything you please;


   An' Tommy ain't a bloomin' fool -- you bet that Tommy sees!


 


 

User
Posted 11 Jul 2014 at 09:59
Hi Roly,
Thank you for your kind thoughts but believe me I am no hero. Having served 31 years in the Army I have of course been put in some awkward situations but none more so than any other person. Right now we all have our own fight to deal with and deal with it we will.
Hi Mo,
Thank you as well, you are quite right, these devilish opiares play havoc with your mind.
Take care all
Life is for living
Barry ( alias Barrington )

Edited by member 11 Jul 2014 at 10:00  | Reason: Not specified

User
Posted 11 Jul 2014 at 11:50
Goood morning Barry!


You seem much brighter and sharper today.

The saying is true..'You can't keep a good man down'.

Looking forward to your next update.


All the very best from us all, and Love to Karen too,


George, Lynn and Kat.
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