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Posted 02 Nov 2017 at 10:57

I am so sorry to hear this, Julie. You both fought so hard and are an inspiration to so many. Love Janet, xx

User

Posted 02 Nov 2017 at 11:53

Sorry never seems to cut it in times like these, my heart goes out to you and the boys. No one could have fought harder.

RIP Trevor

Roy xx

User

Posted 02 Nov 2017 at 12:54

My thoughts are with you Julie and boys. You are a true inspiration to many. You shared the measure of your love to many of us, and your wonderful man. Love is one of the things the more you give the more you get back. R.I.P Trevor, love to you and your family.

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Posted 02 Nov 2017 at 14:23

Dear Julie,

I am absolutely gutted to hear of Trevor's passing.

Never in my 12+ years on the PCUK forums have I witnessed such a very long and so difficult a battle by such a courageous man.
He was a hero, and we all wished he'd continue to defy the overwhelming odds for even longer.

We salute a truly outstanding man who inspired us all.

Julie, our hearts go out to you and your boys today.

You shared with us every up and down over the years and yet never lost your unique feisty spirit and so often you were still able to type so many 'laugh out loud' postings.

Only you could have written these moving lines about the love of your life:
You summed up everything in so few words.

Trevor
The Man
The Myth
The Legend
Has left the building.

We all love you, and wish you all the strength in the world to get through this sad sad time.

REST IN PEACE NOW TREVOR

George & Lynn

B2PCa

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Posted 02 Nov 2017 at 16:17

Dammit, Julie, we knew it was coming but all so wish Trevor and you could have had more time together. Thank you both for being such an inspiration to us, which I hope you will be able in time to continue to be, so that Trevor's legacy lives on through your actions and wise words.

User

Posted 02 Nov 2017 at 16:20

Julie

I'll make sure there are prayers for you all.

Tony

TURP then LRP in 2009/2010. Lots of leakage but PSA < 0.1 AMS-800 Artificial Sphincter activated 2015.

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Posted 02 Nov 2017 at 16:49

I’m so sorry Julie - I have followed your thread for quite some time and am terribly sad to hear of Trevor’s passing. Many many condolences to you and your boys xx

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User

Posted 02 Nov 2017 at 18:33

Julie,

My sincere condolences, what a fight, what a guy!

Flexi

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Posted 02 Nov 2017 at 18:37

Trevor battled on through what would have killed many a man years ago. My condolences to you Julie, to the rest of the family and friends.

Barry

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Posted 02 Nov 2017 at 19:15

Thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time .
Debby

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Posted 03 Nov 2017 at 17:43

Rest east Trevor.

Our condolences to Julie and her family.

Roger

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Posted 03 Nov 2017 at 20:57

Words are not enough.
RIP.
Trevor.

User

Posted 03 Nov 2017 at 21:30

So very sorry Julie to hear the sad news about Trevor. You and your family are in my thoughts.

Debbie x

User

Posted 04 Nov 2017 at 18:10

My heart breaks for you and your boys Julie. What a wonderful woman and support you have been to your man.
Rest in peace Trevor xx

User

Posted 04 Nov 2017 at 20:16

Don't comment on the site often but have followed your journey from the 1st day on this wonderful site RIP Trevor thinking of you and your family at this sad time Julie x

User

Posted 04 Nov 2017 at 23:26

Can the most computer literate among you bring up the Train Journey for me .

BFN

Julie X

Not mentioning names but Si I am looking at you X

NEVER LAUGH AT A LIVE DRAGON

User

Posted 05 Nov 2017 at 00:01

Here you go, Julie - page 2 and scroll down about halfway to the end of November 2014

http://community.prostatecanceruk.org/posts/t9751p2-Advanced-prostat-cancer-part-2?=#post122611

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User

Posted 07 Nov 2017 at 12:49

Trevor has left the building....

Julie you are one Orrsome lady.

I wrote this poem about 6 weeks ago for a friend struggling after the loss of his wife. I know you won't find it inappropriate for you or your family.

I am deeply sorry for your loss.

xoxxx Mo

Ours is not to reason why

it matters not how hard we try

we can hide under that darkened sky

or spread our wings and learn to fly

Our grief isn't measured by our tears

nor time constrained by months or years

the smallest things can make us cry

yet ours is not to reason why?

each day we start with good intent

to try and simply re -invent

but that is living in a lie

For ours is not to reason why.

So we change the question to simply how?

and take one step forward in our here and now.

⚘

User

Posted 08 Nov 2017 at 17:29

Just logged in after a long absence to read the shocking news that Trevor has passed away...

I well remember talking to him at length about 3 years ago at a Euston Flyer meet up. I was totally in awe when he told me what he had been through and couldn't help the admiration of how he dealt with it so matter-of-factly.

It would have floored a lesser man but he was sparky and upbeat in such a way that was instantly impressive.

He was an inspiration and that's a fact.

RiP Trevor and sad condolences to your family.

Ross

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Posted 09 Nov 2017 at 20:51

Julie
Forgive me for taking so long to send my heartfelt sympathies, I’ve been in denial land so not on here. You have been so very kind & encouraging to me & I cannot thank you enough for that & for sharing your journey with Trevor & your dear boys. All I can do is wish you peace, the comfort of love from those who surround you, strength for the coming changes & hope for brighter days when the memories of the laughter outweigh the tears. Trevor & yourself will always be a part of so many of our journeys so he will never be forgotten. We will share stories with others of the The Legend Trevor & of his remarkable fire breathing wife whose boundless love and comfort blankets seeded rainbows in so many dark skies.
Love to you & your boys
Mel x

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