Hello Jervis,
Looks like you had a tough time getting the Dr's on side, and then having to wade through the treatment plans to find one you felt comfortable with, glad to see that you had the tenacity to stay with it.
I was diagnosed with Pca in 2005, out the blue so to speak, no symptoms, no family history of it, nothing. At the time I was living and working as an engineer in the shipyards of Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada. The GP I had there advises all men over 55 to take the PSA test, mine came back at 4.8 nothing to worry about as that's only slightly over the normal range for my age, but thanks to her diligence she sent me to a Urologist to have a 12 shot biopsy done.
That's an experience in itself, I near leapt off the bench but there was more to it than that, if I'd known then what I know know about prostate biopsies I wouldn't have had one, I wasn't told the risk involved in them doing a biopsy, it's a small risk but we should be told about it.
The result of the biopsy and an ultrasound was that I has two small tumours each one staged at Gleason 3+4, so it looked like this thing had got a bit of a start on me without me having any signs or symptoms at all, seems that's the way it is for many of us.
I'll never forget that day that the Urologist called me in to tell me that I had cancer, that shook me to the core, I thought it was a death sentence, but it's not, there's worse cancers than Pca, you have at least a fighting chance against it, but what do you fight it with !!!
It was like waking up one morning to find myself in the middle of a minefield, desperately trying not to make the wrong move.
It's almost a postcode or a geographical lottery as to what treatment you're offered, too easy to find yourself loaded on to a conveyor belt heading towards the "this is what we do in this part of the world". Hardly seems to matter that some other treatment plan may be better for you, "if it's not on our shelf then you won't be getting it".
I spent hundreds of hours on the www bringing myself up to speed as to what Pca is all about, the survival rates of different therapies, none of which at the time {10 years ago} seemed to have a lot of appeal.
The conveyor belt in Halifax, would have slid me onto a table to have Radical Prostatectomy, but after seeing photo's of the scars left on some of his patients I'm thinking his assistant must be one of the resident blue sharks out of the harbour so I walked away from RP, add to that I just didn't fancy taking on some of the side effects that can come with RP.
I was offered Radiotherapy but after {by chance} taking to a guy who'd gone that route only to have his colon burned causing him to suffer from long term faecal incontinence, yea, I know, million to one chance, well not quite, but a chance I didn't want to take.
I was also offered Hormone therapy, but the fact is, that's never cured anyone, at best it can slow it down, at worst it can flare Pca up !
The worst part about being told you have cancer {of any sort} is the shock and awe of it, most folks still think it's a death sentence, it's not, but beware of the idiots {maybe well meaning idiots, but idiots all the same} who go around telling folks that magnetism could cure you, or, worse still that drinking your own urine can cure cancer.
Sadly I knew a bloke who {in desperation} decided that was the way to go, refusing all other treatments he didn't last long, I think of that poor lad many a time, you can loose your life if you make the wrong choice, and who amongst us is capable of thinking straight when we are under the gun.
Thanks to the time I put in scouring the www I found what seemed to be the kinder / less invasive options of HIFU and Cryo.
HIFU just has to be the least invasive Op {if you can even call it an Op}, and the survival rates were as good as anything that the old "gold standards" could offer, so I went for that...
I had a choice of having HIFU in the US {a couple of thousand miles away from where I was working at the time} or I could have it at Stepping Hills a 30 minute drive from family in Greater Manchester, so, fancying gifts of Lucozade and grapes I went to see the folks at Stockport.
Things were going well until they did a scan that showed a build up of calcium in my prostate, enough of it to block the energy of the ultrasound waves that would be directed at the tumours, so, HIFU was a non runner for me...
Thankfully I had a second string, CRYO, either in Germany or in Sunderland Royal, I went for Sunderland, mainly because it was still on my own patch so to speak. It cost me £8,417 to have the Cryo done there, money well spent, the surgeon there is recognised worldwide for his skill and knowledge of Cryo for Pca. I couldn't have been treated more skillfully or more respectfully than I was by the staff at Sunderland Royal. If your life might be in the balance then you couldn't be in better hands than theirs.
It's now over 10 years since I had Cryo, and since then my PSA has never been higher than 0.5, the Op was a nerve sparing Op so they didn't kill the whole prostate, so you'll never get a zero PSA, but the Cryo did it's job, I'm still here {back in the UK since I retired} and I have no residual side effects or impacts on my quality of life at all.
One thing I have learned over the years though is, when you talk to blokes who have had one treatment or another they will insist that you should have what they had, maybe misery likes company, but, I'm telling it like it is, don't go for what I had, GO FOR HIFU !!! if that's not an option for you then go for the second string, Cryo...
No matter what route you take I wish you all well, it helps to believe in whatever path that you chose...
Bob.
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